no my mum ended up really bad quite quick my dad over 4 months but if it wasn`t for the leg break in hospital he wouldn`t have needed to although he might have done if it was the cancer.
It's really sad when there hasn't been time to talk about arrangements, although not many of us are strong enough to bring the subject up with our loved one, not sure I could but for others it's a subject that just needs talking about!
That was one of the hardest things to deal with. People giving me their opinions on what they think is right- constant second guessing of myself. Criticisms even as small as the color of dress I picked for her to wear.
I wanted to scream at them all- “I’m just doing what I think she would want! “
That must have been very frustrating for you. I always think if only someone would just say, "I'm here" and sit quietly until I wanted to talk, but they mean well and we have to be grateful they are around, quite often people just disappear after the funeral.
I'm really sorry about that, but I can totally understand, not many of us want to discuss these matters when facing our own mortality, it must be extremely difficult.
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