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[chloe40]

Please introduce yourself here, we'd love to hear from you.

Chloe

[chloe40 Administrator]

I'm sure we have many members that we haven't heard from yet and I'd like to give you a personal welcome to our wonderful forum, so come and say hello!

Chloe

[Kay1469]

Hello my name is kay I have just joined the group, I lost my wife on Monday morning aged 39 it has been the longest, toughest week of my life xx

[kenster1 Volunteer in reply to Kay1469]

hi gosh im really sorry to hear that thoughts and prayers go out to you and both families and friends.here for you anytime if you want a chat this little group really is supportive and understanding hopefully you are being supported by loved ones around you.god bless and take care.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Kay1469]

Hello Kay1469

That's just tragic, my heart goes out to you {{{hugs}}}

We are here for you at this dreadful time in your life, take it one day at a time.

Post as often as you want to, we'll try to help you as best we can.

Chloe <3

[Kay1469 in reply to chloe40]

Thank you I’m really struggling at the minute crying all the time and feel like I have the heaviest heard although I’m sure that’s normal xx

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Kay1469]

Hi Kay1469

I'm not at all surprised you are very tearful, you're going through a very painful time in our life and one you least expect at such a young age.

You have much to manage in the coming days even before you begin to grieve, right now you're in shock and distress, and I really hope you have some support to help you with arrangements.

Be gentle with yourself Kay and please do keep in touch {{{hugs}}}

Chloe x