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My so dear friend of mine sadly lost her lovely husband a week ago tomorrow. I was with him until the paramedics arrived as my friend was on way home from town, then visited him in ITU and so devastatingly with my friend 36 hours later when his heart stopped and the hospital were trying CPR . He was only 44 and they have 2 beautiful children. Just such a shock and literally heartbreaking x

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This is heart breaking webbs8

I am so very sorry to read this, such a dreadful experience for you and such a terrible loss for your dear friend and her children, so young, so tragic. I am glad that you were there to offer such your loving strength, what a supportive caring friend you are dear webbs8. Please don't forget to look after yourself too, you've had such a shock, so do take care, we're here for you, always.

Chloe

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webbs8 in reply to chloe40

Thanks chloe x

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Your friend is fortunate to have you by her side at this time. How old are the children? When my first husband died, I was 29 and my two children were ages 11 months and four years, respectively. I hope your friend's parents are living and can give her emotional support too.

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webbs8 in reply to jaykay777

Hi jaykay the children are 13 and 10. Ah bless you for your experience and your children so young too ❤ my friends has her parents still local and her partners family and lots of friends so sure these will all be such a saviour x

How terribly sad and tragic webbs8. My heart goes out to your friend and their two children and those closest to them. Such a massive massive shock.

You are a supportive and caring dear friend and must be feeling shocked and devastated too. As Chloe40 says please do try and look after yourself the best you can.

We are always here for you, do take care webbs8,

Lottie

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Thanks lottie x

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2stroke

My Sypmpathys.

So sad and so young.

he'll be sadly missed.

my best wishes to his wife and children.

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webbs8 in reply to 2stroke

Thanks 2strokes for all your kind words and caring and support same to chloe, Jay and lottie, means alot x

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