Hi
I don't know if this is the correct place to post this question as there are so many different posts being sent to different places
5 years ago I lost both my sons 6 months apart very suddenly
My eldest was not married at the time but My youngest son who was 46 had a lovely wife and 2 beautiful granddaughters
We are all incredibly close and have grieved together but now my daughter in law has met someone else.
I have always said that I would not want her to be on her own for the rest of her life and Paul would not have wanted that either. She is only 49 kind, beautiful
I just want her to happy but I am finding it very hard to cope with it pretending to be happy for her but deep down having these conflicting feelings which are making me feel as if I am a nasty person
I know she will never forget Paul as she loved him deeply and no one will ever replace him as the girls Dad
Incidentally he seems a nice person so it is not as if I dislike him personally
Has anyone else felt the same way and if so how did the cope with it
Thank you
Cath