What do I do now........

[Tinksishere]

I am struggling, I was dismissed due to ill health the end of November from my work. I am really suffering still, in a little discomfort due to hip problem but I have applied and applied for jobs but the jobs are not what I have done for the past 18 years and I am not getting any feed back if I do its that I am not successful this time. I am scared and feel under severe pressure to find work before July as my contribution ESA would have run out and that is what pays for the roof over our heads. I know my partner is just worried we will loose the house but he doesn't help, keep reminding me that I haven't got a job. I am so sad.

I try and be positive by saying to myself that just because one door closes another will open but when I am feeling the way I do today its not helping. I know everyone has there own problems and people will look at my problem and not think much of it .....But its a big problem to me, I am drowning.

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You are not alone, I quit my job due to my anxiety, my partner works but I feel I'm not contributing as I have done all through 10 yr relationship, bills don't stop, I feel a failure. I've applied for jobs but no response, not even a thank you but not successful at this time, nothing. Till I got to point I stopped applying as it made me feel worse. Please don't give up hope and end up a recluse like me.xxx let us know how you get on xxx

[Tinksishere in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for reading and replying x

[seyi]

Hi

I can feel your worry and concern but the last thing you need right now is being put under pressure will make your situation worse or magnify everything. I have been off work 3 months now with anxiety and panic attacks and fear in the end i will have to quit. Although l need my job to pay my bills and mortgage so can fully appreciate your position. Keep trying for jobs if your able and you may have to knock on a hundred doors before one answers.

Many companies now have so many applicants unless your short listed you don't hear a word which is disheartening.

I hope you manage to get something soon.

Let us know how your getting on.

Best wishes

Hugs Seyi xxx

[Tinksishere in reply to seyi]

Thanks for reading and replying x