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[Kaaayla]

Feel so alone n upset right now I just don’t know how to watch my mum everyday I know she’s Alive and I thank god for that but watching someone you love just being so weak so anxious so scared the list goes on and with my anxiety I’m no help to her I try my best but sometimes it’s abit to much I hold all my emotions in then every now and then I just find myself sobbing my heart out I can’t control my emotions I feel like in my family I have no one to talk to only my mum really she’s my whole world n much more .. I watched my dad struggle in the end with cancer n was there when he actually died now my mum has cancer n respiratory n heart problems now like WHY just WHY😢 I’m so gutted I never wanna loose my mum .. I’m so sorry for posting again I just feel so alone right now why do bad things happen to good people💔..

[Natsteveo]

Sweetheart I’ve got tears in my eyes reading you’re post it’s taken me back to when my mum was at that stage.. don’t ever apologise for wanting to talk to someone.. this is a very very hard time for you too be in right now and what was worse for me was that there was absolutely nothing I could do to help her either ... you cry and sob bloody scream if you have to... take every second and minute you can to be with her stroke her hands..talk to her sing to her tell her what a amazing mum she is and how much you love her because she will hear you she knows your there you’re her baby no matter how you try to hide things she will know it’s mums for you we know everything there is to know about our kids especially when they are sad.. babe I know how hard this is for you right now none of us want to ever lose our mums or anyone you’ve gotta fight with her you’re a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for.. you’ve been here before that shows me how strong you really are.. you are human so yeah damn right this is bloody hard for you too cope with that is hard to go through.. she is right there with you and you cherish every single moment you have with her which I know you are this life is so cruel nobody should have to watch a loved one die I know half of me died when my mum died you’re never alone kaaayla you have us your HU family and we’ve got you sweetheart

Sending huge virtual hugs and kisses 😘 xx

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Hello

It is sad you feel you have all this weight on your shoulders and it is a weight as well for you to try and carry on your own

Maybe your Aunty you could confide in how hard you are finding this to deal with you really need others in the family supporting you and you should have their support

I think Mums are our world and shows what a good job they do , we never want to loose them

I was older than you when I lost my Mum but we never knew she was even ill , she was left to get ready to go out and my Dad found her on the kitchen floor she had died just like that at 64

The shock and the sadness as there would have been so much we would have wanted to ask , wanted to say and when it happens like that you feel robbed of those things but then my Dad got cancer and we only got 3 months before he died but we did have a chance unlike with my Mum to have those last moments , neither is great ways to loose your parents

I miss my Mum every day and even at my age I miss her telling me everything will be alright as she was the only person I would trust when she said those words

Try not to think about the " what if's and when's " but cherish each day as she is still with you and you have time to tell her and ask her all the things you want to

Life is cruel and painful at times but when you have to you will find the strength and carry on as that is what every Mum hopes their children will do

Stay in the day , they say we only have a day at a time and we do so make each one count and ask people for support in your family , I know some you find difficult to talk to but hopefully you have some members of your family that are there for you

Remember a day at a time

Take Care x