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Hi all. Has anyone ever tried getting confidence from the opposite sex. When I’m anxious and depressed I have found myself sometimes messaging people telling them they are good looking and hoping for it back. Now this is all I have ever done, nothing sinister At all. Now tonight two females started on me saying I’m playing them. I didn’t even know they knew eachother. Wasn’t saying or anything so I don’t feel as if I am in the wrong. Now I am worrying about them creating some online thing about me making lies up about me. It’s made me feel sick. My neck is burning and my chest is in bits now! I don’t see the harm in giving people compliments. Wish someone would do the same for me!

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Hey Sandy, there is no harm in giving others compliments. Unfortunately, what's happen in today's world is that

trust seems to be gone. Everyone thinks there must be something sinister behind a compliment. Sad but true. I wouldn't

worry about them creating some lies about you. It's not worth getting sick over.

You are a good man Sandy. Don't let a couple females worry you. They're not all like that. Breathe my friend

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