Life

[1973m]

Hi all , nothing specific, just lonely and would like to hear from you!

I’m feeling sorry for myself, I have no reason for this other than I’m sick of being there for everybody and sticking my neck out and being trodden all over !( family, mourning, worst out in people😔)

That’s the beauty of this site, I’m able to draw on my experience to help others and I know it’s valued, I also get advice back.. some genuine lovely people on here been dealt a bad hand.. I hope you all get there , thanks all for listening. X

[Agora1]

Hey 1973m, it is great isn't it? To have a safe place to come to when we feel lonely and have issues we don't know how to address. We are all here waiting to help, waiting to listen. xx

[1973m in reply to Agora1]

Yep , it truly is . Thank you for reading.

I’m finding it hard to describe how I feel at the moment.. I guess numb is the all I can come up with, a distance like I actually don’t care what happens to me!

Only I care what others are feeling and I’ll always help if I can , I’m halfway through now and that’s if I’m lucky! But some of these young people whom use this site and are experiencing this my heart breaks for them ! Get help it is there and every day it becomes less of a taboo .

[Agora1 in reply to 1973m]

Hi 1973, my heart breaks as well to see younger and younger people coming on the forum for help everyday. We can only hope to share our experiences with them and support them. I hope by now you have calmed down some and can relax the rest of the evening. xx

[Delzek]

Hi 1973m, having not long ago losing my Mother and Father,I do know mourning Can bring the worst of people's moods out. Normally from what I have seen it's caused by a festering anger at a supposed slight on them ,or they think they have been cheated out of some inheritance or yet again it could be they never liked you in the first place! My 2nd eldest Daughter runs after her Mother and Brother and stepsisters, because when they fall out with each other they call my Daughter and she seems to get roped in as the Peacemaker, the middle man kind of thing (same used to happen to me when I was younger) She has now put her foot down and said "If they have problem' S with each other then sort it out themselves " I am very proud of her for doing this,as she has 3 children of her own and she adopted her sisters son who has serious behaviour problems sadly!! They say that you can choose your friends but not your family! And it's so true sometimes.

I hope you can sort out your problems and then stand up for yourself, I live with 3 Parrots and even though I very very rarely venture outside I genuinely never get Lonely the Parrots keep me occupied!and they are more peaceful than Humans. All the best Derek

[1973m]

I have my animals too , they never judge just unconditional love !

I did stand up for myself and for my mum and sister, I was fed up of this family member treating us bad ! To put it mildly I’m not very popular now! And don’t feel very nice but I’ll not see my loved ones bullied anymore.

[Delzek]

Good on you,Bullies hate someone standing up to them, I believe they are the ones who are afraid hence the bullying!