i lost my everything

[revertz]

i want to die

[Juejue2005]

What have you lost? Stay strong x

[revertz in reply to Juejue2005]

my wife left me . i love her.......and she got marrige with some one..............since last 2 years ......every singal second i m crrying from my heard ..............since from last 2 years i cant sleep............i m a m.tech mechanical engineer from iit india.......i left my job just bcoz of mentally upset ..........i m 26year old .......frinds you people have any solution for this problem.....rply fast friends .......bcoz every single day i m killing my self .......plz save me

[Agora1 in reply to revertz]

revertz, we are here with you in your heart break. We can hear your pain. We will support you the best we can. You will be surrounded by caring people. There are others who have lost the love of their lives on the forum. Let them speak out and console you. Only time will help heal the pain you feel. Please continue using the forum. You are not alone my friend.

[revertz in reply to Agora1]

thanks agora

[revertz in reply to Agora1]

bcoz of all these incident .........i was in unconscious 7 month in hospital.........

[Agora1 in reply to revertz]

revertz, what prompted your unconsciousness? Stress alone, even severe doesn't cause you to be in a coma. I am so terribly sorry but I do hope you are under professional care right now. Do you have other health issues at this time?

[DOGS-GIZMO-FRODO in reply to revertz]

It sounds like you are saying this happened 2 years ago? Please remember that "time heals and bad memories fade". You just need some support and understanding from groups like this to move on slowly but surely and make a good life for yourself. You are only 26 you are in the prime of your life and have your whole life ahead of you to do what you want. Do see your GP or go to some local groups that offer talking therapy and friendship. Being alone too much is not good for your mental health you need support and friendship to recover from this but you are most definitely a survivor you have survived the last two years however painful they have been and you have taken the first giant step to come on this forum and ask for help. We are all here for you. Do you have a church that you were ever a member of - you could go to see them and talk in confidence and they can help you find others to talk to in order to set you on the right path again to a happy and fulfilling life.

I wish you well for the future. You can do it. Keep putting one foot in front of the other moving forward on the road to recovery. In years to come you will look back on this time and see that it was just a large blip on the winding road of life.

Take care.

[natejohnson0201]

You have support, let's us know what's going on! Trust me we all have been there and we can help! Please post more about what your are feelings

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Noooo don't say that what's up

[Claire12345]

Stay strong 🙏

[Agora1]

revertz, you need to call your doctor immediately and get to a hospital. This is very serious. You need to keep safe. Do you have a friend or family member with you right now?

[revertz]

no one is with me ......i left my all family members ....now i live alone ......

[Agora1 in reply to revertz]

revertz, I just got your "like". How are you doing? Have you been able to talk with anyone a professional therapist. Your spirits are so low. You need to find help so that you can let go of your grief. Talk to us on the forum, we support you.

[revertz in reply to Agora1]

yes

[revertz in reply to revertz]

friend grief?

[Agora1 in reply to revertz]

revertz, what I mean by this is as long as you hold onto the hurt, you will continue to feel hopeless and lost. You are grieving (sadness) about your wife. Sometimes talking can help release that sadness which is buried deep inside of you. Your mind and your heart hold that sadness. There are others on the forum who will be able to support you as well because they too, went through the same loss.

[revertz in reply to Agora1]

ok . i dont know the people who faced this probleme......

[Agora1 in reply to revertz]

revertz, when they see your response, I am sure they will reach out to help you. I am so very sorry you are going through this. There are people on the forum who have lost their spouses through death as well as divorce. They will come to you.

[revertz in reply to Agora1]

how can i find these peoples

[Agora1 in reply to revertz]

I will find them for you.

Stay near...

[revertz in reply to Agora1]

thanks friend ..........

[Claire12345]

U ok

[revertz in reply to Claire12345]

not well

[Claire12345]

U seem a doctor yet? Ano it will be really hard but there is light at the end iv the tunnel

[alan1010]

Alan here I lost someone very close 2 me 7 months ago I got very depressed very low indeed I no its hard to do but I knew I needed help I went and seen my gp he helped me a lot he put me in touch with a therapist they can help u 2 get through this . I can now see that things r getting better 4 me so take the first step and get help it is there. U will feel better

[revertz in reply to alan1010]

thanks friend .....i will try this

[revertz in reply to revertz]

my proleme is...

every time she is striking on my mind ........

[alan1010 in reply to revertz]

I no its like a grieving process we go through but don't suffer in silence it's important 2 go and get help u will feel the benefit of having people to talk 2 go and c ur doctor start the healing it does get better I no iv been there

[Agora1 in reply to alan1010]

alan1010, thank you for coming on and giving support to revertz. I hope you are doing better. As always, my best to you.

[alan1010 in reply to Agora1]

We all need a helping hand I hope ur good I pray 4 us all

[Danielleapet]

Dont feel alone is there someone you can talk to a friend a neighbour a family member ? Someone you could possibly stay with try not to be on your own feeling like this , And please get yourself to your doctor they can help you .. We are all here to help just pls don't feel alone sending you a huge hug xx

[Andypandy30]

How are u Alan was asking n a private message

[darkshadow]

revertz--I see it's a month since there was any message to or from you. Please let us know how you are. Have you seen a doctor for help? I know what you are feeling. Love is beautiful but also terrible. Please come back to us here. Myra.