Friendship

[Maribee]

I wish you all as happy a day as you can create........it may not be ideal...but get sone really good moments if you can....we are all behind you.....and care...xxxxxxxxxxxx

[Hidden]

Hello and Happy Christmas to you to

I hope you create a lovely day for yourself to , just relax and push any thoughts to one side to day , let them know you are having Christmas Day of !

Take Care x

[Maribee in reply to Hidden]

x big thanks.

[Maribee in reply to Hidden]

Am trying Lulu.....am trying but mainly failing.....x

[Satsuma in reply to Maribee]

Wanna chat Maribee ?

[Hidden in reply to Maribee]

No you are not failing because you are trying and anyone that tries is not a failure

Now we are in the middle of the afternoon the day is getting closer to drawing to an end so you have just about got through today already

Have you a good film or a nice book you can read and maybe some nice chocolates x

[Maribee in reply to Hidden]

Hi...I lit the fire which brightened the place up a bit and my friends have been sending be messages and some really xmassy videos....it's good to know that, although they are away having fun with their families, they have found time to think of me and go to all that trouble...I am truly blessed with my friends......and couldn't have made this giant step without their support.....you are helping be through this tearful day too so thankyou for that....it's sad knowing that my own kids are not even giving me a thought, just trying to please their controller.

As you say...I need to accept it as I cannot change it...

New years resolution I guess..........x

[Hidden in reply to Maribee]

Well you are blessed if your friends have been making contact all day and sometimes friends can be more than family , the saying " You can choose your friends but you can't choose your family " springs to mind

You don't know what they have been thinking and from their behavior I would not even try and second guess

I would concentrate on deciding what you are going to put i place for next year to make " Your life better " as you are the most important , as someone once said to me " While you are busy trying to make everyone else happy and you don't succeed , how about making yourself happy and that way at least you will know you did succeed in making someone happy

Sounds nice and cosy with the fire and the Evening is now here and today is nearly over and well Boxing Day is nothing other than a Bank Holiday and you have coped you can soon put all this behind you and next year I would be seeing what plans I could make so I would not be on my own and that would show them all that you had let go ad they were not controlling you ! x

[Satsuma]

Seasons Greetings Maribee