would love some sane advice

[2sara1]

I don't know how I've managed this but I've ended up with 2 really good job offers and im driving myself mad trying to figure out what to do 😣 is anyone up for a chat to try and help me clear my mind

[Devin76oh]

Would love to help. Is this decision causing you anxiety?

[2sara1 in reply to Devin76oh]

lots haha ive been having an awful time the past few months. long story short I wanted a career change told my boss she started being horrible and gave me a disciplinary over a tiny tiny thing. which has caused me to hand my notice in early because I can't stand it. now I have this job lined up and I was happy with it I think and now I've been offered another one. I keep getting this dreaded feeling like a sick feeling that I've made the wrong decision on everythjng and I should just stay where I'm at! I feel like I've messed everythjng up in my life and I don't know where I'm going at the moment! finding myself waking up every hour and unable to get back to sleep. I just know I'm going to pick one of these jobs and make the complete wrong decision!! I know nobody else can make it for me I just don't know what to do

[Cat33 in reply to 2sara1]

Changing jobs is a very scary thing but if your boss is being horrible then time to go as that can be so miserable

If you have 2 jobs lined up then you are obviously very good at what you do

Go for the job that you feel suits you best it takes little while to settle in any job

Think you just have to sit and write the pros and cons of choosing the job you have

Go for it and enjoy a new challenge with much nicer people

Good luck

[william1436]

what i did was to convince myself this is a panic attack not a heart problem and it works more then 1/2 the time what helps the other times is zanax see your doc