Having such a hard time trusting anyone especially men. I'm 47 have two teenagers,anxiety and pretty severe fibromyalgia. I'm a member of a couple of dating sites start chatting to guys then I just freeze. I've been on my own for about six years,split from my husband about 14 years ago after he had an affair,he went onto marry the woman. I don't think I've gotten over it,it was just awful,the lies he told,the way he treated me. I met quite a few guys after but just couldn't get close to anyone. I'm just too terrified of being hurt again and I mean terrified. So I'm sort of resigned to a life on my own but it makes me so sad as I'm a very loving person. Just don't know what to do. The anxiety just takes over and literally paralyses me.