Nasty words

After falling out with my best friend last year and having a big arguement, we just started talking again but i cant forget the things she said to me (youre dead to me and if anything happens to my baby youll be to blame) so ive come to my senses and decided i dont need her in my life

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Hey pink.

Sometimes we say things we don't mean but I do understand that sometimes you just can't forgive people for the things they say.

Maybe speak to her about what she said and see what she has to say about it?

Xx

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Hi Ashley, there wouldnt be much point in asking her about it as she blames me and thinks shes done nothing wrong. Xx

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Oh I hate people like that....yeah maybe best just staying away from her xx

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Hi Pink

I dont know all the in's & outs of this friendship , just a few bits you have said here & there in posts

Now sometimes even friends can say things in the heat of the moment that can be very hurtful but what I have had to do over the years is ask myself have they crossed the line

By that I mean I can & do accept we all can say the wrong thing at times but there is a line that if it gets crossed there is no going back & we all set that at what we find acceptable , so if you thing this friend over stepped yours & this is the decision you have made then it is the right one for you even though I know it can still hurt for a while

Love

whywhy

xxx

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Hi whywhy, she definitely has crossed the line as she thinks shes done nothing wrong. Shes put me through so much stress which made me ill again xxx

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Sounds like you have made the right decision then

xxx

[Kimmieblue]

Absolutely definitely DO NOT need people like this in your life.

I don't know the background of your argument but it's not acceptable to say things of that nature, you're dead to me! That's terrible.

No wonder it's all making you feel anxious again. I'm glad you've come to your senses and you're keeping her at arms length!

Have a good day. X

[Mysteryreader]

My thoughts are that you have enough to cope with anxiety you don't need the extra anxiety of keeping this person as a friend WHAT WILL SHE/HE SAY NEXT TIME THEY Feel angry about something. SOME People need to realise that words hurt and bruise AND CAN'T BE Forgotten.

MR