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[scoobyd]

Well I'm home had a nice day but felt edgy all day. Hope its not the tablets making me worse or I won't take them. I'm scared the work programme will make me do a job and I will have to leave my son I've never left him before its always me and him so that's making me worse I want a job in school hours which is reasonable but there is no jobs I don't want to be shoved in a job I hate.

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Hi Scoobyd,

Ring them in the morning to tell them about your son, They just send out these letters as a matter of course not really looking into it properly. I have a few friends who have had to ring and tell them this and they have got it changed so try not to let it ruin your evening okay. Gardener x

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Hi

Glad you have had a nice day I am sure the edgy thing is that letter & hopefully when you have sorted out something that will go

Are you ready for work with your problems , you could see your GP & put in sick notes & I am sure that way they leave you alone

I totally understand you wanting to be there for your son , I was the same with all three of mine & now I see how lucky I was as I was able to be I felt that was my job & I enjoyed doing it , but I no things have changed

Have you looked into maybe , a dinner lady , or lolly pop lady , something working in a school , cleaner maybe , as I no Mums that go for those sort of jobs as the hours & holidays fit around school hours

I am sure this will get sorted , if you need to ask your GP to back you up with your health issues

Love

whywhy

xxx

[scoobyd]

Thanks but my gp is an ass he wouldn't give me a sick note and the dinner lady thing is hard to get I apply everyone I see a job like this your help and advice on here is what gets me through x

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I no this may be a silly question because you may have done it already , but as your GP doesnt sound very nice have you tried a different one may be in the same surgery ?

I think when you are suffering one of the most important things is a GP that will listen & understand & you deserve one !

xxx

[scoobyd in reply to Hidden]

I have seen another doctor and he was just the same think I will ask for the lady doctor this time

[scoobyd]

We all can't help feeling this way but they don't care to the dole I'm just another statistic they can tick off they don't care about your circumstances

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Not good scooby. Try being my age (59) and looking for a job in a seaside resort which has mainly physical jobs available! I have been out of work for over 3 years now and getting hassled by the JCP. I can't even get my pension until 65 because of the change in the p........law. It's not easy is it? Good luck with it anyway.

Bev x