Well I'm home had a nice day but felt edgy all day. Hope its not the tablets making me worse or I won't take them. I'm scared the work programme will make me do a job and I will have to leave my son I've never left him before its always me and him so that's making me worse I want a job in school hours which is reasonable but there is no jobs I don't want to be shoved in a job I hate.
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Hi Scoobyd,
Ring them in the morning to tell them about your son, They just send out these letters as a matter of course not really looking into it properly. I have a few friends who have had to ring and tell them this and they have got it changed so try not to let it ruin your evening okay. Gardener x
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Glad you have had a nice day I am sure the edgy thing is that letter & hopefully when you have sorted out something that will go
Are you ready for work with your problems , you could see your GP & put in sick notes & I am sure that way they leave you alone
I totally understand you wanting to be there for your son , I was the same with all three of mine & now I see how lucky I was as I was able to be I felt that was my job & I enjoyed doing it , but I no things have changed
Have you looked into maybe , a dinner lady , or lolly pop lady , something working in a school , cleaner maybe , as I no Mums that go for those sort of jobs as the hours & holidays fit around school hours
I am sure this will get sorted , if you need to ask your GP to back you up with your health issues
Love
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Thanks but my gp is an ass he wouldn't give me a sick note and the dinner lady thing is hard to get I apply everyone I see a job like this your help and advice on here is what gets me through x
I no this may be a silly question because you may have done it already , but as your GP doesnt sound very nice have you tried a different one may be in the same surgery ?
I think when you are suffering one of the most important things is a GP that will listen & understand & you deserve one !
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I have seen another doctor and he was just the same think I will ask for the lady doctor this time
We all can't help feeling this way but they don't care to the dole I'm just another statistic they can tick off they don't care about your circumstances
Not good scooby. Try being my age (59) and looking for a job in a seaside resort which has mainly physical jobs available! I have been out of work for over 3 years now and getting hassled by the JCP. I can't even get my pension until 65 because of the change in the p........law. It's not easy is it? Good luck with it anyway.
Bev x