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Should i go to the gig?

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I am meeting a friend at a music gig soon. she is bringing her boyf and i am driving. they want to walk to the venue & won’t accept a lift from me and want to meet me there.

recently, i have had some dating disasters and dated a guy who i discovered had a double life and had not one but two long term girlfriends besides me. it has really damaged my brain and has hurt me deeply. so much that i have felt suicidal at times.

i’m stressed about going out tonight as i’m worried i’ll be a third wheel with my friend and her boyf. i did check with her months before and she said it was ok to come along with them. i am worried i will get either stood up or something bad will happen. i am also worried about my safety when i go home as driving alone.

do you think it is worth going out tonight? it feels like i’m going on my own. i feel anxious and worried.

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friendly34, I don't know if you already left for the gig.

I think your worries are warranted with your safety when

driving home alone. If you haven't left yet, is there a chance that

you could have a girl friend go with you?

At the end of the evening, it might be wise for them to walk you

to your car.

Seeing a woman alone can be inviting trouble.

I wish I had seen your post sooner. Stay Safe and enjoy

the night. Keep us updated please. :) xx

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friendly34 in reply toAgora1

hi there

thanks for your response. i went and my friend travelled with me in the end. i had a great night dancing in the rain. so glad i went.

thanks for your well wishes Xx

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Agora1 in reply tofriendly34

Hi friendly34, I'm so happy that everything went well and you had a great time.

Nothing like dancing in the rain lol xx

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friendly34 in reply toAgora1

thank you. hope you have had a good day x

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:) xx

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