I feel like the world is against me in a way that I have never felt before. This past summer has, by far, been the worst summer of my life.
Bad things keep happening to me and my family and just when I feel like things are improving, we are hit with something else.
It started with my mother breaking her back and spending weeks/months in the hospital and rehab. She is 85 years old and lives 2 hours away from me, so I cannot always go see her. I did go up as much as possible while she was in the hospital and rehab. She has 24/7 care but she is definitely still not doing well.
Then, my son graduated college, found a job, and was let go 2 weeks later, just after buying a car. He is still looking for a job. He struggles immensely with anxiety and depression and has been going through a lot of inner turmoil lately, so I have been trying to help him but it is very difficult.
A job that I was supposed to have over the summer fell through, and our income decreased by quite a bit. I work during the school year but since it is only part time, I do not get paid over the summer. I have yet to find a full time teaching job in my field.
Now, one of our cats is very sick and we may need to let him go soon. Of course, this is my son's cat, so this is adding greatly to his depression.
I cannot seem to stop crying and my anxiety and depression is through the roof. I can barely eat or manage to do anything.
My husband is an asshole and it is also very difficult to live with him for both me and my son, but we have never been financially stable to leave. It is not a dangerous situation but just very taxing.
I see a therapist once a week, but right now, I feel every fiber of my being is crying out for help that I am not sure I can get. I am basically taking on everything myself and don't get much support. I just feel hopeless and tired and extremely unmotivated. I am trying to stay strong for my son but if I can't be strong for myself, it is hard to be strong for other people.
My son is also one that has had one bad thing after another happen to him and he struggles with his past. Mostly bullying from high school. He also has a therapist, but I don't find that it is working. He was using pot to help with his anxiety, and I was OK with that. He does not abuse it and it is legal here. However, he has recently developed bronchitis/asthma and is on an inhaler. He has stopped smoking in order to heal and edibles don't seem to work for him. It really was the only thing helping him and now, he can't even do that at the moment. I know that sounds like a crutch, but it truly does help him.
Sorry for the long story and rant. I am dangling by a thread and trying to use every resource and tool I have learned but they are not helping right now.