Think before you reply please. - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

91,949 members85,866 posts

Think before you reply please.

gerrerd profile image
28 Replies

Be easy on people, If you would not like it said to you, Dont say it.

Written by
gerrerd profile image
gerrerd
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
28 Replies
Focusedmind profile image
Focusedmind

Again, the golden rule just makes sense.

Jennblank7734 profile image
Jennblank7734

Thank you for the reminder.

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54

I agree. Everyone should practise what they preach.

Focusedmind profile image
Focusedmind in reply to hypercat54

And who of us is perfect? Yes, of course we should try to practice what we preach.

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234

Group hug time ,let’s embrace the people who have never known love …..the great raymondo cult welcomes you with open arms,leave your hate at the door … take off your shoes ….let’s all play nice in the quicksand of doom ,gloom ,and desperation

LifeIsThePitts profile image
LifeIsThePitts in reply to Sillysausage234

Funny...I just used the quicksand analogy yesterday in an attempt to explain to my better half how I've been feeling about trying to shed the burden of my past and my self inflicted mental shackles. It's really like pulling yourself out of quicksand!

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to LifeIsThePitts

Thanks for your contribution to this community you are an inspiration …the emojis make me smile knowing you’re microdosing on lsd ….keep on keeping on……quagmire free me hopes

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd in reply to Sillysausage234

❤️👍🫠

LifeIsThePitts profile image
LifeIsThePitts

Our collective paths have brought us all here at this same moment in time. We all yearn for the same things. We need community and support and this may be the only place in our lives that offer inclusion, free from judgement or scrutiny of our mental health and related challenges. Thanks for the 🎗️ reminder 🙂 🐾❤️‍🩹

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd in reply to LifeIsThePitts

❤️

Good morning gerr, so true I pray for a more loving peaceful understanding forum and no one can ever exactly understand how any one really feels as we're all that bit different and so react and can feel a bit different, and as said before my mam told my dad don't expect everyone to be as you would like and think like you , were all different in our own unique way, I'm learning to accept and understand others for who they are and foccus on there good points as with my cat if I didn't he'd be in cats home now 😁😹💛🌟🐼

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd in reply to

The critics have brought us closer. Our little family is thriving 💕

primrose81 profile image
primrose81

“If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all”….

I have been wrong about so many people and the wonder of it is that a number of them have turned out to be close friends…so hard though it is, I try not to judge people on first impressions but wait to get to know them properly. As you said Ray we all have our own stories and nobody ever really truly knows what we have been through.

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd

❤️

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14

Words can

Help or heal

Hurt or harm

What you chose is how you represent yourself to the world

🐬

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

Or how others receive those words …..some people are in the hole and see posts like rays and are not in a place to appreciate the message,I get it ...this post is well thought out and the message clear …ss enjoy your evening,good luck with the colonoscopy

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

Agree SS. The post is clear and hopefully can help move things in a positive direction.

Some of us do take words to heart. That can be based on our past. We don't all react the same to any given situation.

Colonoscopy tomorrow. Having my jello now. Will write a post about how it went

Enjoy your eve

❤️🐬

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

Mr monk can advise on a good prep and I can send a supporting song if that’s ok with ray …..thanks ray ….brb

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

Thank you for sending the very supportive song.

The prep is working.... 💩..... no need to say anymore than that.

Please send chocolate for after the procedure. Thank you

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

youtu.be/JqvpfrnmJrg

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

I'm very competitive. I'm bumping this guy. My colon will win first prize tomorrow :)

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

choose those words carefully to the doctor,

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234

Thank you for all your wonderful advice SS. I really appreciate your concern

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14

you’re welcome,bye

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd in reply to Sillysausage234

The thing is they are disagreeing with. Great masters, I only share them, I find it quite strange when they blame me for them.

Sillysausage234 profile image
Sillysausage234 in reply to gerrerd

keep calm and carry on….enjoy the little bit of peace you’ve carved out for yourself

gerrerd profile image
gerrerd in reply to Dolphin14

🫠

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14 in reply to gerrerd

:) :)

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

You might think you dont matter.

But because of you someone has a favourate mug to drink their tea from each morning that you gave...

What do you think?

I have a question that I would like input on. A guy I know has been with a woman for about 5 years...

About last night/ derealization? Please reply

So last night I summed up the courage to go out with my girlfriends for dinner. Dressed up, looked...

I need some words of encouragement so please reply if you are willing.

Hello Community thank you for reading listening and I hope that you have words of encouragement or...

Post + Reply + Reply back = Backfire

Writing a post is difficult for me. Trying to explain what's broken in my mind and life is even...