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…and that’s it One Day At A Time

In just want to share that I’m having a huge test in my life and I am taking one minute at a time at times.

i hope you all who are struggling can also find hope and peace in taking it little by little and remember to keep breathing those deep breaths in the present moment

✨❤️✨

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Good reminder for me today. Mondays are always pressured and I'm hard on myself. One thing at a time.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

✨❤️✨be good to yourself! I will be also 😅

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

Being good s**ks. Benefiber + add-on Rx is making me bloated and sick. I need a break.

I AM trying to be calmer about today's work though. Thank you for that.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

I love you 😍

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melbrown

Big hugs Starrlight. We are with you... I'm trying to enjoy the long weekend. Heading to the store now & going to a friend's later to grill & chill.

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Starrlight in reply to melbrown

Oh nice! Eat some food for me, ha! (((((((((((((Big hug backatchya))))))))))))))

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melbrown in reply to Starrlight

🥰 It was... got lots of puppy love & friend love. Hope you are remembering to practice self care ❤

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Starrlight in reply to melbrown

Good 😊 yes thanks I am

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Agora1

You've got the tools needed Starrlight, now is the time to put them

to use. You've got this. Breathe :) xx

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Starrlight in reply to Agora1

(((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))) thanks,I’ve got this! 😅

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Roxylox

Good advice Starr

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Starrlight in reply to Roxylox

✨❤️✨

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Starrlight in reply to Roxylox

How are you, Roxylox?

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Roxylox in reply to Starrlight

I am only fair. I'm going through a health crisis and it's scary. Thanks for asking Starr

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Starrlight in reply to Roxylox

Wow I didn’t know. I am too. I’m so sorry it’s scary for you ((((((((((((((gentle hug))))))))))))))))) do you want to talk more about it?

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Roxylox in reply to Starrlight

In a PM maybe

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Starrlight in reply to Roxylox

sure, any time just be aware I will try to get back to you quickly but may not for a while, but know I do care and am here for you

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Starrlight in reply to Starrlight

I’m so glad we shared with each other

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Dolphin14

Beautiful message my friend

❤️🐬

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Starrlight in reply to Dolphin14

love you 😘

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Dolphin14 in reply to Starrlight

Love you too :)

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Starrlight in reply to Dolphin14

☺️

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primrose81

Good luck Starr xxx

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Starrlight in reply to primrose81

Thank you Primrose!!!

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Starrlight in reply to primrose81

How are you doing?

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Sawdust23

one minute at a time…I like it. That’s how it is with me too. So many moments in the day for me to practice mindfulness and being present. Hope you’re having a nice Monday!

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Starrlight in reply to Sawdust23

Thanks ✨❤️✨mindfulness yes! Hope you are having a good day!

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Trainchaser

Learned that years ago good then good now

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Starrlight in reply to Trainchaser

Good! Just a reminder. At times we get caught up in life and forget.

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Trainchaser in reply to Starrlight

That true. Lose focus

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Trainchaser in reply to Starrlight

Describes my last week getting caught up. Hope you are doing well

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Starrlight in reply to Trainchaser

Yup thanks! You too 😊 🙏

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Mrspjsmom

Take each day any way you can. Being in the moment is something many people don't do. They are thinking about what will happen next or have their faces buried in their phones. They miss so much. It saddens me. You will get through this and I'll be here to help any way I can.

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Starrlight in reply to Mrspjsmom

So true and I am guilty of being on my phone too much. You are an amazing friend. Thanks

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Mrspjsmom in reply to Starrlight

❤️🙃❤️🙃

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Starrlight in reply to Mrspjsmom

😆!!!

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SayNOtoPanic

Remember slow down! Put signs up if you must. Sometimes moving slower slows anxiety too. XO

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Starrlight in reply to SayNOtoPanic

So true thanks so much SayNotoPanic 😌

I think I've got to try a laxative today, and it scares me. Last time I took one I was seriously injured. This problem has gone on too long.

I'm putting off going to the store as my feet are bad. It's a nasty loop.

You're not alone going through a bad time. We'll go forward, maybe scared and confused -- that's no fun -- but we'll keep going.

Oops. Maybe a bad choice of words, considering my situation. 😄

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

☺️can you try to use more natural like a magnesium- that’s what I do.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

I've been using more natural darn near everything for going on four weeks. Dolphin recommended I stop fooling around and I think she's right. Of course she said not to do it if I'm scared, but if that stops me... Well. Let's just say -- scared? That ain't a short list.

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SayNOtoPanic in reply to Nothing_but_books

how about an enema flush like they use for medical procedures but sans laxative just with light amount of milk of magnesia or something like that? Is that safer?

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Nothing_but_books in reply to SayNOtoPanic

I just got back from the store and I took the minimum dose of laxative.

See, the problem is that anything that stimulates my intestines, even a little bit, increases the pain in my feet dramatically.

Not one doctor has any idea what I'm talking about.

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Dolphin14 in reply to Nothing_but_books

💩

❤️🐬

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Dolphin14

The pink box said "for sensitive tummies". I took one. We'll see.

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Dolphin14 in reply to Nothing_but_books

I hope it moves things along without causing your foot discomfort :)

❤️❤️

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Dolphin14

I don't care right now. My feet have been bad all through this. If it helps, great. I just hope whatever pain it causes doesn't last multiple days.

I'm stopping the new Rx tonight. I can't take a laxative every day just to tolerate it. Too many awful side effects.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

Good idea. Are you going off slowly or cold turkey -however you doc says?

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

I haven't even tried to call the doctor's office. I'm sick of their nonsense. The doctor won't call back, I only deal with the office staff. You wouldn't believe how useless that's been.

You bring up a good point though. I feel like just stopping it -- it's only been a bit more than three weeks. Maybe I better do I bit of research.

Boy I don't want this stuff in my system any more.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

I know what it’s like to want something to just get the hell out of the system. And the docs not calling back is not right. But sometimes it’s way better for us to wean off gradually as you know. I just want you to be healthy. Yes do some research.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

I did the research:

"All antidepressants can cause withdrawal issues IF someone has taken them for longer than 6 weeks." (my caps)

I'm just starting the fourth week, so cold turkey it is. It might be nasty, but probably not for long.

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

wow that sounds hopeful

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

💜🦜 + 🦔

Herman's helping too. He suggested "crickets".

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

🤣 Coco suggests duck jerky but Toady says no we do need the crickets please

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Nothing_but_books in reply to Starrlight

Aww... How can I go wrong with all the help around here?

You found duck jerky? Want some. Yum. 🦆

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Starrlight in reply to Nothing_but_books

haaaa! 😂

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Dolphin14 in reply to Nothing_but_books

I hope this works for you.

Just my own thoughts lol. I would taper everything. I prefer slow start slow finish.

❤️❤️

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SayNOtoPanic in reply to Nothing_but_books

Sounds like very sensitive nerves. Maybe your vasovagal is reacting to the intestinal movement and cramping and that’s sending pain signals to your feet since it all runs down that way. Oh man big hug!! Grab a soft pillow or blanket or a towel and maybe hug it tight. Sometimes that helps me feel better. Re direct the focus.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to SayNOtoPanic

Uh-huh. A number of doctors have suspected some kind of neuropathy, but they can't confirm it.

A number of members have mentioned Cipro as the genesis of all this.

I learn more here than I ever did from an M.D.

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SayNOtoPanic in reply to Nothing_but_books

cipro the antibiotic? 😳

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SayNOtoPanic in reply to SayNOtoPanic

I hear so much crazy stuff about Cipro the antibiotic that it almost scares me how much docs loveeeee using it when there’s other stuff as a first defense line with maybe less bad side effects. Ughhh.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to SayNOtoPanic

Read through, and protect yourself. These antibiotics are very dangerous.

drugwatch.com/cipro-levaqui...

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SayNOtoPanic in reply to Nothing_but_books

thx you. I’ve had a lot of relatives have issues with them.

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Nothing_but_books in reply to SayNOtoPanic

You're welcome.

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Dolphin14

For you :)

❤️🐬

You are a star
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Starrlight in reply to Dolphin14

Awww It’s beautiful 🤩 I do feel rather twinkly today ha!!!

Thank you 🙏 ☺️

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Dolphin14 in reply to Starrlight

Twinkly sounds awesome

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