To all who try to make a difference on the forum.

[gerrerd]

To all the haters as well.

[Uma_nalla]

I would say to be completely oppositeDon't be kind, people make use of u

U will just b use and throw

So, don't b kind

Be straightforward

It's my vision of life

Bcoz I am kind, but ppl were never kind to me

[gerrerd in reply to Uma_nalla]

Well be kind to yourself then!

[designguy in reply to gerrerd]

Good and kind reply gerrerd!

[Midori in reply to Uma_nalla]

You can be kind while setting the rule of 'So far and no Further', then the other person knows not to push too far. Some will still try, but you setting the rule will help protect you from having your good nature abused.

Cheers, Midori

[primrose81]

I am sorry some people have been unkind to you Uma_nalla, I know what you mean. But that was in the past and even though you can’t forget the past, you can still be kind for I know you are a kind person. I know it’s hard but try not to let your past engulf you and look forward not back…

[primrose81]

It costs nothing to be kind

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Thank you, gerrerd. I completely agree. You get what you give; choose kindness. It’s never let me down. ❤️

[Sillysausage234]

are you still feeding the fish ray ?

[gerrerd in reply to Sillysausage234]

No not for 3 weeks they are about 2 feat down moving slow semi dorment! A bit more lively today! Covered the pond when it was very cold.

[fauxartist]

I do believe it's easier to be kind. For some people who don't like their life or themselves, they lash out at anything that isn't miserable like they are. Keep it in mind to 'Consider the Source' when dealing with jerks. We can feel sorry for them, but excusing their rudeness doesn't help them either. I think we can all diplomatically deal with those kinds of people, pick our battles, and know when they just are not worth our time to respond.

[gerrerd in reply to fauxartist]

You hit the nail on the head!