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am I overthinking this?

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my head is so messed up and confused and I never know if I’m being over dramatic and overthinking so I need some insight I guess. Anytime my boyfriend and I are together he is constantly on his phone texting and stuff which is fine I don’t look over his shoulder or anything even though sometimes I want to. But if we’re not together and I try to talk to him he hardly ever responds and I know that sounds crazy. I just really don’t wanna get hurt again and I’ve been in toxic relationships my whole life I can’t tell if I’m just overthinking and it’s mentally exhausting.

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Starrlight

I think if he hardly ever responds and doesn’t give you time when you are together you deserve better than that. ❤️

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JasmineJaz

I'm more than useless in giving relationship advice, but I don't think you are overthinking this. What's the point of hanging out together if he's constantly on his phone?

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Sautafossa

Hello, for me it's dificult to give advice not knowing you or your bf. What i can say is to ask some advice to your friedns or family.

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Blueruth

The only way I think you are overthinking is to keep him around. texting while with someone is rude and then not texting with you? He isn’t respecting you. Your free time is valuable…don’t waste it on him.

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