Im tired 😢😴

[ashleybakerr01]

im tired of fighting...its one thing after another...always. I feel like im worse than i was. And I feel a mental breakdown coming on 😩

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stay strong

[No1wthayla]

Don't give in! Fight for your well-being. I know some things can knock you down. Finances always got to me and still do if I'm totally honest. Relationships with my family, my husband (who is now my ex-husband, thankfully), feeling alone even when he and my daughter lived with me.

There are always dark days waiting for me somewhere. I just have to fight through them one at a time. And when I need help the most, I come here. We're here for you. Prayers, hugs, love and light.

[CindyKatherine]

I can relate @Ashleybakerr when it seems to get tough by the minute, and there appears to be only darkness at the end of the tunnel, with the storm continuum with no over-sign within our horizon. And, worst, if we seem to get no social support from our loved ones. This can be devastating if this word does not fail t describe it. But, I will say, my friend, let these fiery crucibles be your helpers. It is not and never would be easy but it is worth the fight for our happiness.

At times, we may have to cry alone, fall, weak, criticize ourselves and our actions if we think we have acted with ineptitude or wrong judgment, and on and on, yes, but as long as we keep hope alive the battle Is still in our favor and, the victory is ours.

We cannot retreat not surrender even if we are too weak to fight. We cannot succumb to criticisms or failure or stress of any kind nor can we accept defeat. I know that most of our battles are not self-caused, then we have demonstrated bravery to even fight them in the first place. But, what if they were self-inflicted, is it not brave too that we do accept this and seek corrective measures? You are a fighter my dear and victory is yours.

And you know what, you are not getting worse. The fact that you dare to talk even now means you are better (If you look up cases of victims of self-harm, the “oh how I wish she/he has talked to me…list” does not seem to end), and better you shall get. And, please bear in mind, this struggle is not peculiar to you, it is common among humans and, not a few have conquered it.

I will conclude by saying, let circumstances be your helper.

Shalom!

[ashleybakerr01]

Its like I can't catch a break I life...one thing goes wrong Right after the other

[CindyKatherine in reply to ashleybakerr01]

Do you mind citing a few examples to allow us to get some kind of concrete grip on the issue at hand? It is okay if you don’t want to. Thanks.

[ashleybakerr01 in reply to CindyKatherine]

I don't really have the energy to explain right now. It's kind of triggering two talk about at the moment.. I'm sorry

[CindyKatherine]

It is okay. You can talk about it whenever you want to. I am sorry too about the situation. I wish you the energy to surmount whatever the challenges may be. Be strong my dear.

[ashleybakerr01 in reply to CindyKatherine]

Thank you. I'm trying

[CindyKatherine]

You are welcome.