relief and celebration I can move on I've sold my house😁

after a lot of hard work tryner get my house sellable after a renovation project awaiting workmen and I lived upstairs my house like a building site on a attempt to help eraise,dislike of my house due to arful things that happend there which gave me PTSD,and a bus shelter preventing front parking I have finally got a buyer I was in a right state this week after5 viewers and doing the viewings myself the build up the nerves the let's down I had a set back and had a major binge drink,but I'm back on track now but celebrating 🍹 justa few,but I realised I need to feel with my anxiety not by drink comfort anyone else feel like that 🤗💖🤗 I've put the local swimming pool on as that used to help and will go when the kids go back to school 🤪😁🤪

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It's nice to read some good news 😁👍

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Thank you yes it's such a relief to have some to spread too shows there's a light at the end of the tunnel my house I tried to sell 3 years ago Brexit and COVId came I missed the opportunity of my mam's nebours house I was devastated the chapter now on that part of my life can close showing that nothing ever stays the same even tho it may take a while years even to change, 🙄I wish you well 🤗

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Yes things can take ages but you get there eventually if you don't give up.

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That's it though circumstances aren't fixed and forever and can change at the drop of a hat!

Thing is when you have set your heart on something and it doesn't happen it can feel like the world has ended like with me years ago when I had set my heart on working in the kitchen when I worked on dishes and got told no and I was devastated at the time and it had felt like the world had ended but now I look back and feel that by accident I was done a favour when that happened as I would have hated that job reheating junk food but when these things strike it can feel like the world has ended.

In regard to me losing out on those places recently I do feel that perhaps life was telling me no they're not right for you as I wouldn't have enjoyed living there.

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That's great to hear!

How are you and Prince Pixie getting on?

Baby is great and enjoying the cooler weather.

I have been having a good chat to my sister in law today about house hunting and how I find it infuriating and why I find it infuriating and when we looked more closely being infuriated is to do with fears.

Looking back I do feel life has been telling me no to those places I lost out on as I wouldn't have been happy there as often I find is that not getting what I want is a blessing.

Something will turn up one day but it's so infuriating having to wait!

A couple of weeks ago there was a place that said that people were welcome to make blind offers and I had been tempted but had told myself no that's stupid and how it's better to wait than act out of desperation and thankfully never did give into doing that in desperation!

I would rather wait even though i find it tedious and infuriating than do something stupid like that and then be full of regret wishing I had waited and not been so silly!

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Hi cat thanks we are well pixie is tired but bored and I took him for a tenfort walk today his flee drops have tired him too he came to my house this week with me and loved up to me in comfort as new I was upset bless him he is my rock 🐯🤗a viewer had a big red settee dog very good and it made me think maby I could cope with a dog when mam n pixie die not sure tho as cats are low maintainance and I think I'll be too old, patience is what me and you have had to endure on your job search and me my house sale, I'm not in a rush to leave mam l see how she is 🤗🐯xx

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Congrats Twinklystar xThings happen all in good time.

Time to now move on

Wishing you happiness xx

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Hello agora lovely to here from you hope you are well yes I'd give up and just when at my lowest i Did pray deeply to the angel guides and they have come good for me 🐯🤗here's a photo to make you smile xx

Pixie looking fat 😻😂

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Hubby says Pixie is a funny looking kitten as I said how compared to Baby who is 18 he is a kitten at 8!

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Ahhh Life is Sweet xx

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With my situation it's about having faith that a new house for me will come when I'm ready.

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Absolutely Catgirl xx

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It will it's deffunately fate finding a new home 🤗🐯

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I have bought 3 flats and each one I knew was the one I wanted as soon as I walked in the door. Never any doubt.

Well done for selling yours - have you got one in mind or are you going to move in with your mum for a while? x

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Hi h c I am already at mam house but things are a bit strained I'll see how it goes I doubt if get one near her unless fate is on my side I'd like to live rawal come by the sea but maby not quite yet I can't leave mam at this time in her life ☹️xx

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Well done, Twinklystar. You must be very relieved. That's a few things off your mind I would think. Enjoy your "freedom"!😊

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Congratulations!

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Well done, Moving a long way helped me (No negative vibes here!) and I sold my home to a builder who was getting into Buy to Rent), so no long chain or anything, I just upped sticks and left!

Cheers, Midori

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Hi Midora I'd love that a new life new town but mam won't leave our town ☹️