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just before my interview worried because someone is asking me for money

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I just arrived yesterday, dad and sis went through my stuff to search for the tikets, i felt so scared. I'm scared dad saw i have a lot of stuff and doesn't want to give me money. Gave me afew and said it's like a aslary till next month. And it stressed me, traveling, new home, went through my stuff, grandparents - they're tsressing on their own and now mom wants me to make them give me the apartment so she doesn't get kicked out If something happens to them, and the one i rellied on is asking me for money.

Talking of which the thing im stressed about just before my interview is that i met someone here,on uh, who acts Very caring and cute but they don't stop asking me for money which i don't want to give, it can be a scam, and they don't stop asking about it,and i don't know what to do, i can really hurt them, they said im important to them, might visit me but i'm not sure If i can handle hte visit and hte money thing. I wasn't going to post this isnce i might get osme reactions, htey could see it, ppl might confuse me more but i'm losing my mind over htis issue

Im not accusing anyone, calm down because i'm already stressed as hell

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kellyjoan

If there’s someone on this forum who is asking you for morning, you should report it. If it’s a PM, just click Report and it will go to HU who will sort it out.

Ok honey, you need to report whoever's doing this. Please. Okay? Do you know how to report a pm (I'm assuming this is happening on pm).

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Daesin

One of the cool things about being a grown-up is you can say No.

If someone is asking you to do something or give them something that you don’t want to do, say No.

It’s not your responsibility to make everyone happy. If you say No and they get angry or continue to ask use another one word response, goodbye. Don’t waste your time on people who don’t respect you. They’re not your friend and they don’t care about you.

Good luck

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kellyjoan in reply to Daesin

True. But it does need to be reported

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Daesin in reply to kellyjoan

Agreed. My concern is that this isn’t an isolated event for either party.

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kellyjoan in reply to Daesin

I agree

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hypercat54

It's a scam. Report it to HU by clicking the button in your pm's. Then mute them so they can't contact you again.

Yeah, i shouldn't

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Roxylox in reply to Against_the_current

Report immediately, total scam. Np one on this forum should ask anyone else for money

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