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I'm truly scared long story short was in a abusive relationship so I finally able to leave now I been living in a motel and can barely afford I'll be homeless soon and I'm scared still have a job but can't find my own place to live I'm so scared can't even buy laundry detergent no clean clothes now no food and I'm bout to be homeless so scared 😭😭 if u believe add me to ur prayers or watever u believe in 😭

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Louie35

How is your relationship at your job, maybe you can ask for an advance on your salary, if you have any savings find anything, look up Craigslist, find a roommate, reach out to social services in your area, tell them your situation, ask for help, maybe any family or friends, couch surf for a few, anything!!!! I wish i could help more!!!

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Bill181β€’ in reply toLouie35

Thank u It's been over a year I can't find my mom she's in another state

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Louie35β€’ in reply toBill181

Im sorry, i wish i could do more, or send money but I'm barely making it myself

Care Assistant or support worker if you want easy jobs to get

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Bill181β€’ in reply to

Wait what I do have a job already

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Ok but if you’re ever stuck a suggestion

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Bill181β€’ in reply to

Oh oh sorry I was confused

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Starrlight

I will keep you in my prayers. After every difficulty comes ease. I believe it will work out.

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Bill181β€’ in reply toStarrlight

Thank u

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Amanda556

Sorry to hear all this. Abuse can affect your next relationship the scars never leave you . I can't give you any advise hope it all works out

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Ryanlion

Well done for leaving a abusive relationship, too many people stay and put up with it. You are courageous . Something will turn up remember fortune favours the brave. Are there any church organizations that could help you. I know its a scarey time for you but youve taken the hardest step by leaving. Your self esteem will be affected by this abusive relationship, but know you are stronger than your mind is telling you. Be careful not to rush into another relationship out of desperatiom. Could you take a second job to earn a little extra money until things improve. Some jobs have a live in with the job. Even ask at the motel you are staying in if they need extra help. Then you could live in free and work for the room, outside of the hours you work already. I know it will come good and i will pray for you to get the help you need. Think positive and push that fear away.

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Tara52

I have been in your shoes many years ago. Pretty scary, sending hugs..πŸ€— it will get better. Looking back God made provision. You are never alone. God is a always with you. I am well enough now to volunteer at The Salvation Army. Do you have one near you? Maybe you can call them.I will be praying for you.πŸ’—πŸ™ Hang in there! Good days are ahead!

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Bill181β€’ in reply toTara52

Yes there. Is one in town

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Blue_81

Ill be praying for you. Like many have said, look into churches and the salvation army. Maybe Picking cans could bring some cash or working for the motel and getting the room at a discount. Sorry for what you are going through. πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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Bill181

Tryn

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Lazy_dog_lover

There are usually groups that can lean on for support. It depends on where you live. Yes, living in a hotel is very expensive. You need to reach out to your community social services and see how they can help you get back in a place where you feel secure.

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