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Has anyone had to mute someone from their chats? I had to do that today. Their words hurt me and I could not take it. I thot this was a friendly site but now I'm not sure. This is the only person I've had issues with. Everyone else has been great.

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Hb2003 profile image
Hb2003

You can block them I’m so sorry that this happened to you I emphasize how your feeling because i have gone through the same thing

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Hb2003

I know you did and it isn't fun. I'll be alright. Thank you. You're a good person Hiba. 🙂

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Hb2003 in reply to Itzallgood1

Thanks i try to be 🙂

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Hb2003

You are. No doubt.

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Hb2003 in reply to Itzallgood1

I don’t give myself credit 🤣

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Mrspjsmom in reply to Hb2003

You should Hiba. I don't give myself credit either but you are always a bright spot in my day. Even on my worst days! 😊

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Mrspjsmom

She's a sweetheart. She's a good friend on here to me.

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Mrspjsmom in reply to Itzallgood1

She truly is.

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CL3V3R-G1RL

How horrible. So far everyone has been nice to me *knock on wood*

I'm so sorry that person was unkind. You have been great to me!

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Itzallgood1 in reply to CL3V3R-G1RL

We have had good discussion on our own. I think we are solving world problems.🤣🤣🤣

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CL3V3R-G1RL in reply to Itzallgood1

Yes we are! If people would just listen to us 😂

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Itzallgood1 in reply to CL3V3R-G1RL

🤣🤣🤣

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Isinatra in reply to Itzallgood1

😂

Bill181 profile image
Bill181

Maybe sometimes we got to try let it in one ear and out the other ear.sometimes we try to help but might of said something at the wrong time just forgive who ever it was I understand it hurt tho

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Bill181

This was second time.😒

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Bill181 in reply to Itzallgood1

I'm so sorry..I was told I got muted but I don't know what I did wrong

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Bill181

Not you

Dolphin14 profile image
Dolphin14

Yes, I have had to block a couple of people over the years. Harassment and arguing were the reasons. I don't need the drama

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Dolphin14

Me either

Blue_81 profile image
Blue_81

Sorry you experienced this. Everyone so far has been very nice and supportive. Hope you are doing well.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Blue_81

I'm going to be ok.

hypercat54 profile image
hypercat54

Oh that's not nice is it. Yes I have done this before on several occasions when someone has got funny with me. Who needs it.

This is a safe place but you always get 1 or 2 like this online. It's just the nature of the beast.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to hypercat54

I agree. I've done it on a different forum but here? I thot we were suppose to be better than this.

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Isinatra in reply to Itzallgood1

If you find a place on line that has no beasts, please let me know .

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Isinatra

Very true

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hypercat54 in reply to Itzallgood1

Online forums will always attract the odd troll. There is no way to avoid it. That's why we have admins and mods to protect us against them. This is why platforms like HU exist to give more security and protection against them.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to hypercat54

I see admin told me I was at fault. They didn't investigate it at all. I sent them what they said to me and the name they called me.😒

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hypercat54 in reply to Itzallgood1

Did they actually send you a pm saying it was your fault? I am surprised as they very rarely reply to anyone.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to hypercat54

Yes they did. I muted them and it's saying I have messages but no one there. So I'm thinking they are still messaging me. I'm not falling for it.

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hypercat54 in reply to Itzallgood1

I have never heard of admin sending any messages like that! It's not them trying to message you but it sounds like the one you muted. Will you put up a copy here of what admin said please?

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Itzallgood1 in reply to hypercat54

It won't let me copy or paste.It something to the effect that some of my contributions were inappropriate for HU.

It said I should read terms of conditions of HU.

It was signed the HU team.

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hypercat54 in reply to Itzallgood1

Ah I see. It's from HU which is very different than from the admins.

I can't comment as I haven't seen any posts from you which haven't been fine so I don't know what they are talking about.

I would however read the rules and conditions of posting as that way it will help you avoid them in the future.

There are certain types which aren't considered suitable eg political ones, religious ones etc. But it's usually done in the interests of the majority.

I know posts which ask for things like ways to kill yourself are taken down for example as they could trigger others here.

I am happy to chat with you in pm if you feel it would help? Take care.

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Survivor1687

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Nobody deserves that. Especially people coming here for support. ((hugs)) 💜 Don't let one ignorant person keep you from coming somewhere that was intended for good. Please rethink staying and continue being one of the people helping keep this place a good one.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Survivor1687

Thank you for the support.🙂

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Itzallgood1

I did send in the chats that we had together. One of them they called me a crazy b**tard. That got me down. Never have I ever been called that ever.

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Dolphin14 in reply to Itzallgood1

Totally inappropriate. Name calling is juvenile. Did you send to admin.

None of us should be spoken to like that. It's not what this community is about.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Dolphin14

I did send to them

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Dolphin14 in reply to Itzallgood1

Good. I'm happy to hear that. I hope you are doing ok.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Dolphin14

I'm doing well now I don't deal with them anymore

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Dolphin14 in reply to Itzallgood1

That's good. Time to ignore and move on.

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Blueruth profile image
Blueruth

It’s fine to block or mute. If this is the same incident posted before…the other person has no idea why you muted them. Clearly a misunderstanding which is not uncommon in text form. So maybe not post about it unless you can tell them why? Doesn’t sit right with me.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Blueruth

They know why so I had to mute them

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Itzallgood1

Reason for what?

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Itzallgood1

No. It doesn't upset me. I'm over it now. I unfollowed the person so I don't see anything from them anymore.

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belovedangel02

They sound horrible! I only just joined. I hope I don’t experience anything like that! Stay positive! :) x

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Itzallgood1 in reply to belovedangel02

I won't say they're horrible. But no, I hope you find the best people to talk to. There are so many great people to talk to. You can't block them completely but you can mute them from chat and just unfollow and hope you don't see any of their posts. Welcome and good luck!!

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belovedangel02 in reply to Itzallgood1

Bless you! You have a good heart! Thank you for your kind words :) x I deal with severe anxiety and depression so I really hope I don’t experience anything like that and I’m only 20.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to belovedangel02

Thank you for the comments. Like I said there are some really nice people on here. I hope you can connect with them. I too hope you don't experience that either.

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Veteran250

Hi Mute, welcome to our friendly community, I’m sorry to say you will always find someone who upsets the majority of members….. if someone upsets you or is abusive, you can click on the Report button under their post, HU Admin willl give them a warning but they won’t tell them who complained.Try to have a nice day.

Don.😀

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Veteran250

Done. And I'm sure the person knows who it was.

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Mrspjsmom

I'm sorry you were hurt. I have had to do that and it's not fun. Just remember we are here for each other. Occasionally someone is hurtful but they can leave!

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Mrspjsmom

I muted them and they asked me not to reply to their forum. I haven't replied as I don't want any issues.

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Mrspjsmom in reply to Itzallgood1

Take care of yourself first. This is on them not you. You've done nothing wrong.

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Itzallgood1 in reply to Mrspjsmom

Thank you🙂

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Itzallgood1

HU sent me a letter saying I was inappropriate on here. It was the second time I've muted them. I think they forgot I was "Imnotright" before I changed name to "Itzallgood1".

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Itzallgood1

From?

kenster1 profile image
kenster1

never muted anyone big enough to stand up for myself I`ll give more than they bargained for if I was being sent messages.

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