Has anyone had to mute someone from their chats? I had to do that today. Their words hurt me and I could not take it. I thot this was a friendly site but now I'm not sure. This is the only person I've had issues with. Everyone else has been great.
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You can block them I’m so sorry that this happened to you I emphasize how your feeling because i have gone through the same thing
I know you did and it isn't fun. I'll be alright. Thank you. You're a good person Hiba. 🙂
How horrible. So far everyone has been nice to me *knock on wood*
I'm so sorry that person was unkind. You have been great to me!
Maybe sometimes we got to try let it in one ear and out the other ear.sometimes we try to help but might of said something at the wrong time just forgive who ever it was I understand it hurt tho
Yes, I have had to block a couple of people over the years. Harassment and arguing were the reasons. I don't need the drama
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Sorry you experienced this. Everyone so far has been very nice and supportive. Hope you are doing well.
Oh that's not nice is it. Yes I have done this before on several occasions when someone has got funny with me. Who needs it.
This is a safe place but you always get 1 or 2 like this online. It's just the nature of the beast.
I agree. I've done it on a different forum but here? I thot we were suppose to be better than this.
Online forums will always attract the odd troll. There is no way to avoid it. That's why we have admins and mods to protect us against them. This is why platforms like HU exist to give more security and protection against them.
I see admin told me I was at fault. They didn't investigate it at all. I sent them what they said to me and the name they called me.😒
Did they actually send you a pm saying it was your fault? I am surprised as they very rarely reply to anyone.
Yes they did. I muted them and it's saying I have messages but no one there. So I'm thinking they are still messaging me. I'm not falling for it.
I have never heard of admin sending any messages like that! It's not them trying to message you but it sounds like the one you muted. Will you put up a copy here of what admin said please?
It won't let me copy or paste.It something to the effect that some of my contributions were inappropriate for HU.
It said I should read terms of conditions of HU.
It was signed the HU team.
Ah I see. It's from HU which is very different than from the admins.
I can't comment as I haven't seen any posts from you which haven't been fine so I don't know what they are talking about.
I would however read the rules and conditions of posting as that way it will help you avoid them in the future.
There are certain types which aren't considered suitable eg political ones, religious ones etc. But it's usually done in the interests of the majority.
I know posts which ask for things like ways to kill yourself are taken down for example as they could trigger others here.
I am happy to chat with you in pm if you feel it would help? Take care.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Nobody deserves that. Especially people coming here for support. ((hugs)) 💜 Don't let one ignorant person keep you from coming somewhere that was intended for good. Please rethink staying and continue being one of the people helping keep this place a good one.
I did send in the chats that we had together. One of them they called me a crazy b**tard. That got me down. Never have I ever been called that ever.
It’s fine to block or mute. If this is the same incident posted before…the other person has no idea why you muted them. Clearly a misunderstanding which is not uncommon in text form. So maybe not post about it unless you can tell them why? Doesn’t sit right with me.
Reason for what?
No. It doesn't upset me. I'm over it now. I unfollowed the person so I don't see anything from them anymore.
They sound horrible! I only just joined. I hope I don’t experience anything like that! Stay positive! x
I won't say they're horrible. But no, I hope you find the best people to talk to. There are so many great people to talk to. You can't block them completely but you can mute them from chat and just unfollow and hope you don't see any of their posts. Welcome and good luck!!
Bless you! You have a good heart! Thank you for your kind words x I deal with severe anxiety and depression so I really hope I don’t experience anything like that and I’m only 20.
Hi Mute, welcome to our friendly community, I’m sorry to say you will always find someone who upsets the majority of members….. if someone upsets you or is abusive, you can click on the Report button under their post, HU Admin willl give them a warning but they won’t tell them who complained.Try to have a nice day.
Don.😀
I'm sorry you were hurt. I have had to do that and it's not fun. Just remember we are here for each other. Occasionally someone is hurtful but they can leave!
HU sent me a letter saying I was inappropriate on here. It was the second time I've muted them. I think they forgot I was "Imnotright" before I changed name to "Itzallgood1".
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never muted anyone big enough to stand up for myself I`ll give more than they bargained for if I was being sent messages.