Judging.

[gerrerd]

Allow what is !

[Hidden]

So deep - thank you for everything every message!!!

[gerrerd in reply to Hidden]

Your welcome👍

[Roxylox]

Does thst apply even if itsomeone who completely insults you and has no value on you?

[Shnookie in reply to Roxylox]

totally agree with U

[gerrerd in reply to Roxylox]

It's them that has the problem, there words and insults belong to them, how you react is the only thing you have control of.

[Roxylox in reply to gerrerd]

Oh no, not always. You have to try and exercise control if they give others a false impression of you.

If they are in pain , that does not give them free rein to cause me pain.

[Zhangliqun]

I think a better way to go is just to be very slow and reluctant to judge, but don't say never because in extreme/obvious cases, sometimes it still has to be done.

[gerrerd in reply to Zhangliqun]

There are grey areas and different levels but in general we can observe and come to conclusions, without being the judge and jury.

[Roxylox in reply to gerrerd]

Oh , you learn to know those with few if any mitigating factors, they like to play with their victim like a cat with a mouse.

[Lali2018]

So Wonderful 😘

[gerrerd]

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