🌛What is the most recent dream you remember?🌜

[coolkitty1934]

my most recent dream was of me getting up and going to school XD then my mom woke me up and i actually had to go to school TT_TT

anyway i would like to know you most recent dream you remember!

[STEM_Dad]

Well, since the love of my life just divorced me, it's not surprising that the most recent dream that I remember was of us being remarried. (I'm a little envious that I didn't wake up to what I was dreaming about.

😉)

[coolkitty1934 in reply to STEM_Dad]

im very sorry for your loss i have another post i made about funny stories want to go there it might cheer you up!

[STEM_Dad in reply to coolkitty1934]

Thank you.

I've been through all the stages of grief and am mercifully in the "acceptance" stage, but my brother called to check on me yesterday and reminded me that I can expect to feel that pain of loss again from time to time.

I'm grateful for the 20 years of marriage that my ex and I had, all the memories, and the kids we have together. I'm also grateful that, despite how difficult things our struggles were this last year and the strain the divorce put on us, when it was all over we both realized that we are still friends.

(I have a glimmer of hope that we will remarry someday. Actually, 6% of divorced couples remarry, and those remarriages are more likely if they don't have resentment for each other after the divorce. And 80% of those remarried couples stay together, vs. the usual statistic of 2nd marriages having an over 60% divorce rate. So, maybe I will wake up to that dream one day... But for now, all I can do is be my best self, and that's the reason I'm on this forum in the first place. )

🙂

[coolkitty1934 in reply to STEM_Dad]

well sometimes the bets way to heal is time and laughter it will leave a scar but thats okay in the mean time i am here if you need some laughter or just to talk!

[RupertBrown]

It was a nightmare I had a few months ago. I don't know why, but I never remember my dreams. The only ones I ever remember are nightmares, and even then I can only remember them maybe two or three times a year.