I am annoyed!!

[Ilovepugs123]

Last Sunday, I just moved into a new house and my friend asked me multiple times when I am going to go over to her house and I said, to be honest, I don't know then a couple of hours she asked me what I was doing that Saturday and I told her I don't know and then I told her I can hangout Saturday but not stay the night and she said okay but yesterday i messaged her about today and she said she doesn't know anymore but i know deep down inside she wants me to stay the night at her house and she needs to understand that but shes not and shes always asking me to hangout but when i was at my old house she would tell me that its too far away and now that i live in town shes like its "Kinda close" but shes not willing to come pick me up which is a shame. Next time she brings up hanging out again im just gonna be honest and say everytime you ask me to hangout it never happens so why ask if its not going to happen at all like whats the point in talking about it if its never going to happen like i hate it. It just doesn't just annoy me, it also bothers me like i just moved into this house and all she thinks about is her house and if she thinks that when i get my drivers licence that i am always going to go to her house, shes 100% wrong because lately shes been so noises and all that and i just can't take it. I honesty don't trust her and shes on dating apps and shes married so she can find female friends which i think in my opinion is a wrong way to find friends if your married. Im just annoyed and honestly don't know what to do or say because i know shes gonna keep asking me and isn't going to stop. I need advice.

[Indyra420]

My fiancé does stuff like that. Just find out he’s just feeding off my energy. She seems to be a narcissist and energy vampire. She is what she is.

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to Indyra420]

I just don't know what to do because I just moved into this house and I ask her to do something for me she doesn't do it but when she thinks it's okay to keep asking me all these things to not stick with it like i don't want to be mean but no one really likes her for the way she acts and i agree the way she acts i don't like it either like she acts like she wants to help me but she doesn't at all and i just ignore her and let it go but its weird how she acts like that.

[Indyra420 in reply to Ilovepugs123]

Yeah. She is not a friend.

[GodKid]

She doesn't sound like a safe person to be around. I've learned that when I don't feel comfortable around someone, that may be God's way of warning me that that person is not healthy. I agree that you should let her know how you feel. Then, find people to hang around with who add to your life, rather than subtract from it! I need to do this too.