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Having a rough time. Feeling really down and hopeless. No energy and have been in bed for days. Don’t want family or friends to know because I have felt this way before a d they will probably lose their patience with me. I am afraid for the future as I am on disability and am afraid I will end up in assisted or long term care.

All I do is sit here and think about things like this. Any suggestions?

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bonkers65

I'm sorry you feel bad. But you're not alone. I feel bad too. Is there any way you can force yourself to go for a walk or a drive?

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fishfry in reply to bonkers65

Thank you for your kind suggestion. I am in a wheelchair but maybe my caregiver could take me out tomorrow. Thank you for caring.

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bonkers65 in reply to fishfry

Yes that is a good idea

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Perriex

I'm so sorry that you are feeling that way. I have no sage advice . . . but I can tell you that the thing that most helps me is the common suggestion to take things day by day, hour by hour, and if necessary, minute by minute.

Anything you can do to distract yourself is good, like bonker's idea.

Do you ever journal?

That is the other thing that helps me.

I wish you all the best.🌹

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fishfry in reply to Perriex

Thank you, Perriex. Taking things little by little is wise advice. Thank you!!!

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Perriex in reply to fishfry

You are so welcome.🌷

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TangledUpIn

I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't know if this will make you smile but when I saw your name, I thought yum, a fishfry sounds tasty🙂I lived in New Orleans and fishfrys always meant good food and lots of fun.

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fishfry in reply to TangledUpIn

Thank you for the reference to New Orleans. You brightened my day with this!

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Livelydively

Hello. I have had to really push myself to start doing things again, too, recently. I was just going through the motions. I found though that when I started incorporating little things into my day it greatly helped. As I felt better, I started pushing myself to do things outside my comfort zone. It's a work in progress.

I hope you have a nice walk with your caregiver today. I started doing word searches again. I am hoping to start a puzzle today. Best wishes!

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fishfry in reply to Livelydively

Wise words and I hope your puzzle and word searches go well today!

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Perriex

It really helps me.I've read that it's a way to "process" your feelings.

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fishfry

You’re absolutely right. I put too much into what others think about me. Thank you.

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