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Hello! Not a long time ago, I met this guy. I really like him. He is respectful, honest and communicate very well. We haven't decided yet to be exclusive because our relationship is pretty new. Two days ago, he told me how huch he likes me. He thinks I might me the woman of his life. But, then, he still wanna meet other people to make sure that he is not with me for the wrong reasons which I understand and in a way is careful. I have been cheated on in my last relationship. I am really scared and anxious about him meeting new people. I dont think I can support the anxiety that comes with it. I am scared that if I tell him how it makes me feel, I will loose him. But, I can't support that very long.

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Great to hear that you may have found a quality partner! But it makes sense that you would want to be cautions after being cheated on in your previous relationship. Since it is still a new relationship do you feel the need to DTR/move to exclusive already or can you be comfortable still taking it slowly as you continue to learn more about him?

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