Where can you find a group for learning disability for finding a partner

My Learning disability is 18-p and is one of rarest learning disability . My issue is that I am jealous some of time when I do get in a relationship and know i always had issue with girls trying to ruin relationship that I did happen a lot in college . I find very hard to trust girl anymore . where to find a nice relationship without any getting anymore toxic relationship that i also did have . I met up with a guy at McDonald's but turn to be a scared of his looks . I am not sure what do . I am feel more like he just see me as friends . I am from England and I did find hard to find a partner and I am heterosexual. been to both learning disability high school and college . I am not sure what do now . I am now super confused . and is there any places . that you make new friends from different area of England . I am from North west part of England . I don't like football , loud noise and learning disability with very strong personality . things that I like are video gaming , ruby ,animals, science and ICT , as well as Plants .

[mirabel8]

Ah, good luck with your search! Maybe Mencap have social groups in your area? Sorry i’m Not local to advise where to go. Hope you find a fun girlfriend soon. My daughter has LD so I feel for you, it can be tough xxx

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I am not a lesbian . I am women and looking for a boyfriend .

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Oops, my mistake. We have Mencap social groups near me, any in your area?

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I am near Manchester , Liverpool in the north wales . My town is Warrington and I do not like anyone from MenCap or Mpower .

[mirabel8]

Ah, that’s a pity. Maybe your council can help?

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I already tried my Council and they toke so long . must of them are just full of mainstream people with club in my town Warrington but I do not likes in guys in my town . What do you think about pub are good or not . i might be going to one sport centre in Northwich and see what I seen . I just met with one guy and didn't get the vibe and just felt very Inmediate and I hate Warrington People .

[mirabel8 in reply to Hidden]

Hmmm pubs can be tricky. Alcohol makes some guys act badly. Do you have any hobbies or interests?

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Yes , they are golf, mini golf and Pitch and putt . other hobbies are gaming . Like playing the Sims 3, Splatoon 2 is game on the Nintendo switch. golf buddies are already married since they are my dad friends that play golf in his golf club. I also has a VR headset.

[mirabel8]

Sounds like a great mix! One place to look is Meetup. I found a group that celebrates neurodifferences... maybe take a look with your parents to check they’re happy too? It may not be suitable meetup.com/ADHD-ADD-Manches...

[mirabel8]

Or this... hft.org.uk/our-services/emp...

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Thanks . I thought I already did tried it . can you do with making a new Friends and network that way .

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Peace & Light! I don't know everything about people or relationships but I do know that you have to show your face, you'd be surprised where you'd meet the right people, they could be right here on this site. second, you have to work on taking your time and living your life for the betterment of yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, etc. in regards to your dating experiences with crazy men, one thing about positive people is that negativity tends to cling to us often and most times effortlessly because we A.) Gullible and hopeful, we enable them through our insecurities. as far as your dating experiences with women in regards to their affiliation with your men. You cant to be in solid relationships with trust issues. 9/10 these women are swooning after your men because again you enable them. showcase yourself to be insecure, jealous, and complicated by confronting these women and I'm sure if you imply that you're the jealous type I can only assume you confront men in the same manner and that's okay why? because at least you acknowledge it, nobody is perfect and at this point, we're all in a complicated era in our lives where you don't know who to trust, count on and give your heart to especially. Therefore NOW is not the time to try to find/gain love and a relationship with other people, NOW is the time to find/gain love and a relationship with yourself first. like Jennifer lewis said "You've gotta love yourself, so that love is not a stranger when it comes and it WILL come" work on regaining that trust within yourself so that it may aid in unearthing that confidence that you've been burying for so long. think of yourself as the painting "The Mona Lisa" it took "Leonardo DaVinci" 4 YEARS! to paint her. Never did Leonardo DaVinci think, that over 500! years later his painting would be sitting on permanent display at "the Louvre, Paris" as the most valuable painting in the world And the Mona Lisa has SURVIVED through so far at least 15 generations and continues to, as well as gain value over time. The Mona Lisa doesn't hide her face from the world. a narcissistic critic can and may have in the past argue/d the beauty of The Mona Lisa in comparison to other famous paintings of women, like "Girl with a Pearl Earring by Johannes Vermeer" regardless the picture remains the same, poised and confident in all of her mysteries, despite criticisms, and despite to whom or what wall she's clung to.

You are not alone, I'm still finding that peace and love within myself daily and in the process, I've lost a lot of people, but I can proudly say that I see my individuality as well as my impurities and insecurities, and I'm working on those and it may take 4 years but I'm more than willing to take my time. because masterpieces take time. take your time. hope this helps. stay positive and beautiful.

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lose must of friends has well through I already love my self . always liked video gaming better . I given up with making friend with women since they too sensitive and emotional they were liked the tried to get involved with previous relationship and also dislike being single . I also dislike immature. I also got a baby face . it doesn't help with Crazy men that I tried to avoid

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That's good that you love yourself, I'm happy to hear that, but are you secure in yourself? and can you say that you're in a good state mentally? physically? emotionally? Do you respect yourself enough to not be jealous? to not be intimidated by other women? to not be skeptical or insecure? I'm most certainly not criticizing because I have a lot to work on myself, I definitely have trust issues, I do get intimidated by other people. I also hate immature people in relation to narcissism I like more cheerful well rounded and open-minded/emotionally intelligent people and I keep my circles extremely small. it's not a bad thing to be that way but in terms of succeeding where I tend to fail, such as communicating, networking, and finding my ONE. growing, learning, healing, and loving, and loving yourself doesn't mean just liking how you look or being comfortable, you can feel that way and still not take care of yourself, it's acknowledging your flaws (which is what you do) and it's consistently working on bettering your strengths and converting those flaws so that you can connect to people abroad and not feel like you have to devolve yourself and date down. that doesn't sound like self-love at all ma. When you love yourself ENTIRELY, that involves respecting yourself, not doubting yourself, and of course upgrading yourself, being single wouldn't be a problem, like-minded men and women will gravitate to you. don't want to assume your age but you have time my friend and real, permanent, non-toxic love does exist, it's just waiting on you to find her so that she can help you can find him. take it.