anxiety, fear

[Fruitsofspirit]

Today I've been having anxiety fear, feeling I'm all alone. I seem to be off balance. Everytime my husband goes out of the room it gets worst. Head hurting. My nurse had a emergency so she be here tomorrow. I know thoughts of wondering if I could ask for a different nurse has been in my thoughts all day. She all nurse, doesn't smile or really talk with me. My other one we talked it wasn't all business. This one is detached from connecting with me. Who knows.

[Hb2003]

Aww I’m so sorry about that nurses should give you the attention that you need they seem like bad nurses

[Agora1]

This will help a lot. x

[Rafiki11]

I’m glad your husband’s presence is comforting to you! Is there something you can keep with you to bring balance when he needs a break? A favorite photograph?

[RIO-heart in reply to Rafiki11]

I think you should consider requesting a different nurse. You need someone who smiles, laughs and above all gives you the compassionate care you deserve🦋

[Fruitsofspirit in reply to Rafiki11]

I'm praying I'll get pass this. Once I get more stable in hospice. I try bring in someone to help me we did a bath time. My anxiety went off the charts. I started crying. I did it so I can have my husband breaks. I'm a stress smoker and I haven't given in but I wanted to so bad today. My husband and brother told me today that until I get pass the fear 😨 the family will work it. That they want to take care of me, for me to just do hospice comfort care and get stable with in my self.

[Fruitsofspirit in reply to Rafiki11]

We talked as a family after my break down today and we are going through it as a family and work on this fear thing. Thank you. U doing ok ❓

[Rafiki11 in reply to Fruitsofspirit]

I am so glad your family is so supportive!

I hate hearing how anxious you’re feeling. Was the anxiety about the bath itself or just everything put together?

I’m praying for strength, peace, love, and wisdom to flood your entire being and displace the fear.

I am doing well. Thank you for asking. 😘

[Fruitsofspirit]

Thank you for your kind words. I'm going to give her a little more time cuz she trying to get familiar with the new job and area here. She kinda of was more warm in personally. Will see.

[Marshall64 in reply to Fruitsofspirit]

Other than the anxiety, it sounds like you are doing a good job of hanging in there...

[Fruitsofspirit in reply to Marshall64]

I'm hanging on the Lord with my all. The Lord is getting me through and some things r getting better. I think depression Dr needs to learn a little from hospices. I still get anxiety but the the nerves and pain from being so tensing is a 1/4 of. The only depression meds I'm taking is effexter and taraszone. How ever you spell it. The other 4 are no more. I feel clearer. But most is the Lord, it's not me.

[Fruitsofspirit]

Hon I understand going through hard times can talk a toll. U really need to get with ur Dr on all these things. I love 💕 u and really care but u need to take action for urself. We can only help in being here.

[Fruitsofspirit]

Has a Dr told you ur dieing? Get to the Dr before making any decisions. Get help from a Dr.. please

[Fruitsofspirit]

Dr.. hon.

[Fruitsofspirit]

Dr.

[Fruitsofspirit]

U r not alone we are here but take care by getting to a Dr.

[Fruitsofspirit]

Let me know when you go to the Dr to get help and find the truth of what is really going on with you, only a Dr can tell you.

[Fruitsofspirit]

Thought u went to the hospital ❓ and Monday u have to an appointment with GI. U keep confusing me. What is what ❓😨. 💕 Love you, praying for you

[cbgrace1980]

I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. It's important for your nurse to know how you feel, so just let them know. I am glad you are hanging in there and I'm glad you have a supportive family.