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i literally fought my whole life toxic family issues and i always feel so neglected by them and i'm the least cared about member of the family and this is really breaking my self esteem and i really want to move out but i'm not financially stable yet ..i really need help

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TangledUpIn

Toxic family issues? I can relate. What kind of help do you need?🤔

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miralo in reply to TangledUpIn

no i meant advise

I think just about everyone's family is toxic in one way or another!!!!

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FearIsALiar

Hey I know how you feel. I am in a toxic household and it sucks more than anything. I worry their toxicity will rub off on me and make me a miserable person. I am no financially stable yet either nor do I even have a driving license . I’m not sure if you have one but if you do definitely get a job! If you cannot get to a workplace you could always offer babysitting or dog walking in your community/neighborhood.

Please know you’re not alone. I know what it feels like. If you’re ever in danger please contact police.

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FearIsALiar

I know how you feel

Hi. I’m Andy. I’m so very sorry that you are in such a painful place. You are safe here remember that. Without knowing your age etc…it’s tough to advise. But I’m going to say this and hope it will resonate within you. There is more to family than blood family. The family you choose to build around you. Once you are out from under their feet then create that family. For many of us that is our true family. If you are too young to leave then you have to be patient. If it’s about money then…make that money. Make it and dream of a safer, happier more loving life elsewhere with your chosen family. Hope this helps in some small way.

Take good care of yourself.

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