I’ve been suffering from anxiety for a long time now, but only recently have a really started to think about it more in depth as it’s got worse as I’ve got older.
When I was little me, my two sisters and my mum were Victims of abuse, the abuser being my dad. Who I haven’t seen since I was little.
I have a step-dad who had turnt our lives around I could never thank him enough, really
But
He doesn’t understand.
He doesn’t understand when he shouts it triggers,
When he demands it triggers,
When he makes us feel powerless it triggers.
When he calls me pathetic for crying, reacting to situations differently than he would, being quiet, being an introvert, being scared, being shy
I am writing this as I have just had a shout off with him
I was crying because I was dealing with a spider being in my room, something I’m afraid of, and me and my brother was trying to find it. It was really stressful for me and it just really got to me, even though we found it and got rid of it, i still had all the stress build up inside of me and it made me cry.
He told me I was pathetic and started to raise his voice at me.
It escalated and ended with him telling me to stay out of his sight.
I’m just hoping letting this out on here will help me to calm down and stop crying but yeah, thanks for listening if you got this far.