notes on the advanced riding world

students do not respect kind instructors like myself........nor do colleagues...and the mental health system is clueless and doesnt listen to those of us who have grown up in it........rather than listen...they force pepole to adjust to their ways.......which isnt.....workable in the horse world

people love the hells kitchen coaches............oooh hes soo mean he must be so great......

tip of the cieburg.....its a tough business.......expert riders are very quiet......but....people have no respect for us.............still they see us ride....

without a horse....our violin so to speak.................just an ordinary person...........so we are inviliaslb ena peple walk all over us dumby......oh boy.....we are the slaves.........but put us with a horse..............we can do amazing things............trouble is our nacisitic mothers who will say...........hes not an olumpoica rider etc.....

just ot keep u down or wahtever her game is-

instructors aer like teachers.........a range that we teach...........and compete at........i only jump 3 6 ......big enough but.....others like my mother and others..........its not grand prx or 5 feet..............

alkl true.........i served my clients.......til i was crucified by my moher and her doctors....yet again......who know nothitn...of horses or lessons and all we juggle............

i sound so........confidnet and must ge so proud and

huh??? do i look like a twig??? i did.............but ......im now a man ........now a football player or fire figheer..............no matter how kind............people will scream....ahhhh keep him away from my horse...............not konwing i can ride rings around most people.

so i gofrom coach and driector sna er doc.....to cleanint stalls..........and having owners chew my rear as the slaveuse too much bedding and then.....in front of clients..reams ou for not useing enoght....and then your family accuse u of not trying or not believes an word......

same wth bad doctors who assume all clients lie

the opposite of what we coaches belive.....

imposoible to expaln to counselors..............no that cant be.....

omg here we go again...................

no people nthe horse world do not likem e....way too kind....laugh and think im gay...

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[FearIsALiar]

I ride horses but never had any family members who rode. Been the only one in my family to do it.

Do you still coach riding lessons?

[Hidden in reply to FearIsALiar]

to people who ask..........most people dont want to learn correctly and slowlly......they want fast and dirty..............as their horses expense or to win ribbons...........thats not horsesmanship......

riding education is a journey..............about listeing, hearing, communciation, many things..............slow......is fast..................

happy to share.........to those who care about their horse......how to commicate and connnect better...................not the show world.........

my door open to those who want to learn correctly........and care about theri horse .........how to hear each other.........