quick recap: i've been sleeping over @ mom's for 2 nights / week ever since my step-dad passed. mom hasn't told my brother this - because she knows him, and doesn't want to deal with his bullcrap.
additional stress came sun night when mom's furnace went out. my nephew (bro's son) dropped off several space heaters. and the furnace was fixed the next morning. i'm needless to say; back @ mom's. and i heard her say to my brother - "i'll be here for lunch on thu - and i can bring the several of the heaters back to my house to save my nephew the longer drive out to mom's". to which my bro says no way!! i don't want my heaters in "his" house - apparently they'll pickup covid and cooties from me.
FORGET the fact that i have legitimate made in usa n95 masks that i've had for years. forget the fact that outside of grocery shopping for my mom, and 1 night volunteering / week @ animal shelter (only in last 2 mo's) - i haven't left my friggin house!
ADD to this that my jackhole of a brother and 1 son had covid back in april. and 2 wks before my stepdad's stroke gave his younger son permission to SLEEP OVER AT A FRIENDS HOUSE - in the middle of a worldwide pandemic in which several new more infectious strains have been discovered... and guess what!!!??? the little spit for brains came home with covid!!!!!! - which 1 week later, he generously shared w/ my jackhole brother - and yes, virginia you CAN get covid twice!!!
so now my bro's household has had FOUR FRACKING cases of covid - and my household - wait for it... see if you can count this high - has had 0. ZERO. bupcus. zip. nada - cases of covid. but i can't take his heaters because he's afraid he'll get covid from MY house!??!?!?!?!?!? WT Frack??????
so apparently, the other day mom let it slip that i had spent 1 night - probably not a bad thing in the big picture, but the response that mom got for that disclosure was on the order of " WHAT? HOW COULD YOU?".
apparently my "loving brother" only wants mom to get comfort and aid if it comes from him. and if he can't even be here for her because of the brain surgery he had in his butt cheek - then mom is simply not deserving of any other compassion.
and that folks - is how a self-centered narcissist money grubbing piece of cow dung sorry excuse for a son and brother shows compassion for his newly widowed mother and loss of his step dad.
let's check the score card - i know i'm leaving stuff out... but the highlights:
- don't do anything w/ dad's office - because I WANT STUFF.
- don't let [me] stay overnight - because he's not safe - even tho me and my kids have had covid 4 times; and i've clearly demonstrated my complete lack of compassion and ability to even use common sense.
i know there's crap loads more - but i honestly can't remember spit at the moment. i'm losing my fracking mind. and i'm watching my mother deal with this unbelievable bullspit - when she SHOULD be focusing on processing the loss of her beloved husband of nearly 50 years!!!!!