Help.

[tealgrey]

Its been a little while since I have writen on here. And honestly I am surprised. Because my life has been in a down hill spiral. Kinda lost control of it. And that means i'm here. I fought my way wout and now im slowly falling back into the deep hole i created for myself. When parents leave and children are left abandoned they get a sense of loss. And abandonment issues and trust issues and I have all of them. Every single one of those issues I have. But I mean, what can I do about it? Honestly really nothing.

[Marysblue]

You fought your way out, I believe you can again. And the pain of the past can heal. Take care of yourself.

[Hidden]

Don't give up hope that you can find friends and have relationships where that doesn't happen. You are not a disposable person. You were put on this Earth for a reason. You are not here by accident, no one is. God wants you to be here.

[Amatrick7039]

Hello, I was 10 when my mom and dad decided to split. They both found new partners and left me with my grandma. I ve always asked myself how could you of just left me there and move on with your Lives? I must not of ment anything to you. I cant say it was all my bad tho my mima was such an amazing lady we had fun and she did everything she could for me. One year my 10th birthday 🎂 it was the year after they split no one called or came over. She took me to this house in the middle of no where and bought me the cutest bunny ever. Shes made me the person I am today shes made me the mother to my children that I am.

[Agora1 in reply to Amatrick7039]

Amatrick, let me tell you, as a foster mother and adoptive mother, raising

a child does not have to be biological. Instilling the right values, being there when a

child is sick, caring and loving them are what's important in a child's development.

Your grandmother was proof of that as to the mother you are today because of her. xx

[AnxM]

I’m sorry you’re back.

Do you remember what you did before to get well? Sit down and write all the things that helped you before, so that you have a “map” to find your way out.

It’s not easy to heal the inner child. I hope you have professional help.

[Shivedita]

I know, it is tough. But try to accept that two happy people separate are better than two sad people together. And, you are still a family. You have already fought it and just try to remember the moment you decided and recovered. Don't look back. Let it go. Move on.