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[magicly_rose]

I don’t know what to do?? I want to move but i don’t want to hurt my mom.. But i also just keep overthinking. Like, is me moving really going to do much for me? Is it ultimately going to end up hurting me more than doing any good? Is the anxiety really going to go away at least a little? Is being with my dad really going to help that much? Should i worry more about my education than these problems? Can i really wait a year? There’s so many questions that i can’t really answer.. I had this problem once before.. Last year, i think. Or the year before that, i’m not sure. I just know that i wanted to move. I was okay until not long ago..

[FearIsALiar]

I’m going through this too! There’s so many what if’s going through my mind. I really just want out of this house. My family can be so toxic. But I really have no way out.

[GoldenMaknae97 in reply to FearIsALiar]

this is me too except im financially restricted and cannot move anywhere

[FearIsALiar in reply to GoldenMaknae97]

SAME! It’s very hard. I feel so behind in life too. I really have no way out. No license, car, job or anything. :/

[GoldenMaknae97 in reply to FearIsALiar]

I was behind on these life milestones compared to my peers... but even with a license I still can't do much. I stay at home all day every day pretty much. My mom takes my car like its hers and I don't have a job either~ it's been hard to find one and I keep getting rejected :/ definitely a tough time.

[FearIsALiar in reply to GoldenMaknae97]

I stay home all day everyday as well. It’s hard to socialize and what not when you don’t have friends really.

[magicly_rose in reply to FearIsALiar]

i have a job nd stuff but that doesn't exactly change my ability to move or not. my mom and dad are divorced so if i really needed or wanted to i could move in with him. that's kind of what i'm thinking about. just a lot of questions that i can't find answers to

[FearIsALiar in reply to magicly_rose]

Make a list of pros and cons of moving with your dad

[GoldenMaknae97 in reply to magicly_rose]

Does your dad live far?

[magicly_rose in reply to GoldenMaknae97]

4 hours away on a plane ride, so yes a little bit, heh

[Tony042]

I would say to try waiting a little before making any huge decisions. We all have ups and downs so I guess make sure that this is something you really want to do or need to do and not just brought on by a down period.