no meaning or purpose

[moizee]

I have no one to talk to about my feelings. The friends i have don't even know me and are not even interested. My bf and I have parted ways because we can't be together but i still love him and miss him. Everything seems meaningless. I have no energy to do anything or move forward in life. How do i cope with this?

[shoppingblue]

I feel people don't know me either your not the only one ! I hope u feel better soon. 😀

[shoppingblue]

Hi I'm back I'm so sorry you parted with your bf ! Noons really understands me either friends and family its like I'm an alien to my family !!

[moizee in reply to shoppingblue]

what do u do when u feel lonely....i do several things but sometimes nothing helps

[shoppingblue]

Hi I have lacking in motivation too I suggest take one day at a time so its not so bigger problem. I hope my 3repies help!

[Hidden]

Consider explaining to your Doctor He may suggest some treatment

Remember people can have negative thoughts when it comes down to mental health. Even families can turn their heads when a family member is ill with associated mental health. My family it was a weakness and I never was given any understanding.

You will eventually get over the lose of your boyfriend and your feelings although sensitive at this time will eventually move on when you consider any negative effects within the time you were together, you also need to understand if the relationship had lasted would you honestly feel a longer relationship would have lasted over the decades.

You will move on and make new friends, sometimes when relationships break down we may use friendships at that time especially if these friends were associated with your boyfriend

BOB

[moizee in reply to Hidden]

i want to rely on my friends but i don't really have any who are that close. Also my parents seem to think it's normal so i can't get a therapist. I feel suicidal sometimes but holding because of my mother. I can't stop overthinking....although some would say i am blessed. I am the topper of my class....good at everything but i don't know why i feel so empty

[SuZQ154 in reply to moizee]

Hey! You are not alone! Your post struck me hard today! Please know there is help and hope! I was reading this article and through it might help you too. bit.ly/35qXpIg Please keep posting...we are here for one another!!

[moizee in reply to SuZQ154]

Thank youu

[Hidden in reply to moizee]

Regards Mental Health, sometimes when can not rely on others because they look upon us as weak, this can become problematic especially if they go of and discuss this so called weakness, this just makes matters worse for the sufferer. So sad to say we need to be careful who we try and relate our condition through.

BOB

[Hidden]

Sometimes people achieve and given that family/friends expect you to achieve more in your life, this can make the achiever depressed. You are very lucky although sometimes when above happens it can have a negative effect on your education. Keep doing what you are doing and do well for your self, Sometimes it is best to follow your own achievements and do well in your own confidence, You will do well

BOB

[Hb2003 in reply to Hidden]

Good advice 😊

[moizee in reply to Hidden]

Thank you! I'll keep trying

[SuZQ154]

Just checking in! How is everything going?? Thinking and praying for you today!

[moizee in reply to SuZQ154]

Thank you so much. I reached out to my best friend from middle school. We have been out of touch for so long and she helped me a lot seeing my worth and raising my motivation. She said I am a queen and queen's do face hardship and that's true for all. We are all Kings and Queens on our way to achieve greater and we must go bravely through hardships even when we are alone.

[Freakinout3]

You're alone... A great opportunity to do the things you love the most... Friends and Lovers can drag you down, they can be soul suckers... Until you are accomplished, and successful can you find someone deserving of your love...

[moizee in reply to Freakinout3]

So true although sometimes only it's hard to carry on when you feel like sharing your emotions and time with someone else

[Freakinout3 in reply to moizee]

I'm totally alone right now... I could use some pleasure right now, and I'm sad I don't have a lover who believes in me... Right now I'm in a critical point... The breaking point.

[moizee in reply to Freakinout3]

I am here for u buddy. You can talk to me anytime you want to

[Elle_Luv]

Hey i know how you feel. I don’t have a lot of friends to begin with, and the ones I do have we’re drifting. I’m in the process of trying to meet new people but it takes time. It helps me to focus on myself a lot. Practicing self care everyday, and really enjoying my company with myself. I still have my lonely moments, but just because I don’t have people to do things i love with, doesn’t mean I can’t do things I love.

[moizee in reply to Elle_Luv]

Same. I have times when i feel so low that i can't even move and relatively shorted periods of time when i feel I can do anything in the world

[Elle_Luv in reply to moizee]

Ah I totally relate to that. When I’m manic I feel like a walking God

[Marysblue]

Same situation as you, its tough.

[Marysblue]

Since there were several of us in the same situation maybe we could come together as a small group and support each other. Not sure how that would work .

[moizee in reply to Marysblue]

That's actually a great idea. Reaching out does help a lot. I am in for it