I don't want to depend on outside validation to feel worthy... but that is a pattern I have. I let negative experiences and my shortcomings overcome my thoughts and I spiral into ruminations. This gets in the way of achieving my goals and feeling secure in intimate relationships.
Background: I was diagnosed with complex-PTSD in 2015 and have been struggling with self worth since early adolescence. I am 26 yrs old, unemployed but applying to higher education. I am procrastinating on my application that is due in 2 weeks, because I am avoiding feelings of vulnerability, rejection and failure.