Confused

[Marvel002]

Okay if I tell my girlfriend I want to see a boob picture am 19 by the way is that wrong of normal for people my age I don't see to understand.. Please I don't want criticism or judgements I just need advice

[Hidden]

Normal ..but if its not a pic of hers..u may have some explaining to do,lol

[Marvel002 in reply to Hidden]

Ermmmmm thanks..

[Hidden]

Hello

From a female point of view I would say at your age it is normal however I would also say as a female we like to think that the person we are with is only interested in us and so therefore could find this very hurtful

So I would say it is normal but don't tell your GF as that will be hurtful

Take Care x

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

That's exactly what I was going to say. x

[Hidden in reply to hypercat54]

Great minds and all that x

[hypercat54 in reply to Hidden]

Oh definitely! 😀😀 x

[Hidden]

It's ok to watch porn now and then or to ask your gf to send you pics of her chest. But don't be asking no random girls for pics of their boobs . That's just plain disrespectful and hurtful to your gf

[hypercat54]

To give you an insight how would you feel if your girlfriend told you she wanted to see a dick picture? Would you see that as normal? And would you want to know?

[Marvel002]

Wow thanks everyone this was super helpful

[Purrsona]

No shame in wanting to look at nice breasts. I might be in the minority here, but I wouldn't find this offensive--UNLESS you asked in a way that felt manipulative, bullying, wheedling, or risky. Also, you know, revenge porn is a thing, so she might be justly concerned with her privacy should your relationship go sour. (Not saying it will, but women should know it's always a possibility.)

If it genuinely seems like she wouldn't find the request offensive--if she's super unshy about her body and she knows you care about her privacy--I suppose there's no harm in asking. But be understanding if she says no.