I love you

[Ladybug9]

I love you. You're probably thinking, "you don't even know me!" If people can hate so easily and with no reason, I can love that easily.

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Hey Ladybug, how are you???

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

I'm doing fairly well. Things are starting to effect me which happens a lot to me. Not bad, just soaking everything up.

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

I think I'm too much of an empath. I soak up stuff too. If you'd like to privately chat, I will be here for awhile. You are awesome!!!!😎

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

I'll be here for awhile too. Being an Empath is really hard! My Therapist said, "you're an Empath, A Double Virgo, Perfectionist and OCD. Stay off Facebook! LOL

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

Oh, I'm so done with Facebook!!! YouTube is easier on me, better to be dissed by someone who doesn't know me at all.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

LOL!! I had started 3 groups on FB.. Two were similar to here where people could feel safe posting and I started a group for music lovers. I do miss those and a lot of my friends but I don't miss the negativity, the anger, and the judgement. I've been away from it for almost 3 months now!

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

I know how things can get out of hand. People are people.

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You don't know me, if you knew me you'd hate me.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

I doubt that very much.

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

Thanks after being rejected 3 times this week it's nice to hear something kind.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

I have dealt with rejection and abandonment issues while growing up so I can understand when someone is going through those issues. It saddens me that you dealt with that 3 times! 3 times too many.

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

That's just this week.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

That is heart breaking to say the least. Feel like talking about it? I don't mean to get personal. But sometimes it helps talking about what is going on.

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

I just want a family but everytime I try to meet a woman I get brutality rejected or ignored. I could deal with a simple not interested but these girls go out of their way to be mean and hurtful.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

Exactly WHERE are you meeting these women? If they can be that mean and hurtful, you definitely wouldn't want to waste your time on them. There are good ladies out there and when you least expect it, you will meet her. And you will know...

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

Some of them were from back in high school and just after high school. I'm sick of being alone so I joined an online dating site. Where only messages I get are from spam bots. I met one girl online who agreed to go for coffee with me. Then an hr before we're supposed to meet. She txt me her friends told her I'm too poor for looks not to matter and too ugly for $ not to matter so she can't be seen with me.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

WTH??? I"m ashamed of them. They lack character and not someone you would want in your life anyway. I don't know how safe those dating sites are. If you are going to continue to use them, try something. Take your picture off of there and get to know someone you may like to date, from just plain ole communication. Talking about yourself, etc... The best relationships start with a strong friendship before anything else.

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

Yeah I'd love to talk to someone and get to know them, no one wants to get to know me though.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

There has to be a reason. And I'm sure it's not your looks! Just try starting a new profile without a picture and if they ask why you don't have one, explain that you want to get to know someone with no preconceived judgments.

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

Ok don't have anything to lose, I'm alone and miserable anyway.

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

Keep me posted okay? I know there is the right person out there for you!

[Hidden in reply to Ladybug9]

Ok I will.

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I needed to hear that. I love you too. My cat and dog waved to you

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

Aw!! My fur baby is waving too!

[jwhitleyjr]

Love you also.

[Hidden]

Thanks. I feel all warm and fuzzy inside now☺. Are all ladybugs females?🧐

[Ladybug9 in reply to Hidden]

No actually they aren't and the males are better looking than the females!

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Aww shucks, you're making me blush☺

[newcomit6]

you are so lucky that you can love

[newcomit6]

in my country you cant do that easily

[newcomit6]

my friend loved two girls but he was afraid from being caught but then he decided to drive hyundai sonata 2010 model with the glass black

[newcomit6]

months a go i loved a girl but i was under watch from my mom

[newcomit6]

while she talking to me i got mad i didnt know what to say to her then i told her i dont know what to say to you she replied to me she saying say everything in your heart and soul then my friend told me to say to her some romantic words i started sending love words online then she asked why i am copy the words from online why i dont use my brain to write the words and after 5 mintues my friend chatted with me that day i wrote 600 words or more to her