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So recently I wrote on here about how it was like I have birthday PTSD because of my boyfriend and his actions around my birthday. Well, yesterday was my birthday. It wasn't as bad as previous years; compared to those, this was actually minor, but still a big deal for me. You see, this year its almost like my birthday wasn't happening. He never asked me if he could see me, what I was doing, nothing. Not for the actual day or any day surrounding it. And yesterday, it took him hours of texting before he even wished me a happy birthday, like he completely forgot. When I finally told him I had kept my night open, hoping he would at least ask to see me, he said he assumed I wouldn't be available. And when I said, "but you didn't even ask", he went completely silent. Did he break up with me like 2 years ago? No. Did he tell me got an STD like last year? No. Did he make me feel unimportant this year? Absolutely. He said he wished he could give me the world, but he couldn't even give me himself. I think it is time to set myself free.

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Happy Birthday ChubbaGiz (one day late) but meant with love

Maybe the best gift you could give yourself is to set yourself free.

You deserve the best life has to offer. Words are cheap. Action speaks

volumes in a relationship. :) xx

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