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People fall in love with horses for some reason

I’ve worked with them

TrAinedcomleted coached Yada and had do deal with all the problem cards for fifty years

Like people there are good and bad

People start to chew on me because they start defending g

I wasn’t being mean just factual and yes like dogs. Mean horses are made

However makes them

Still no less risky at a thousand phi Da or more of high strung muscle

Women like the relationship aspect

And many get on with horses better than men unless u leRn commi icAtion not force

Doctors and nurses mental heLth people haven’t a clue

They think it’s about command or other things

Total crap

U develop and invest and care for yur living partner and listen like a violinist

The mentLhralthsystemis years behind

Have problems we get a lead horse or a bucket of grain or pAtience or a friend or music

On and on tho gd the mental heSlth people are discovering

And they treat us as retards

If ur fighting g with ur horse

Uncheck ur thking not his or hers

I avoid the mental health system and their co droendency crap

Name one horseman or musician not co dependent

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Horses are such lovely animals! I sure miss having one of my own. 🦄

I love horses. I used to go to horse shows all the time as my bestie was always showing. We would horseback ride all the time. Awesome smart animal.

Nice thing

They take us as we are. Today

How we treat them

Period

I can go visit go groom. Do nothing Hang out Eye etc

The good ones. Never tell secrets

And don’t cRe about mkney s status etcetcetc. Just how u tray them

Not as wonderful

As a woman but most women u go through twelve years of urs ruins

Just wanted a friend.

Dogs are great too

Not a woman but

They never get tired of being petted or think that’s why u cRe about them

U can pour the love into a dig or horse

Most dknt mind

Some people love their cars

Some their

Some guys clean and care for their tack and horses and equipment for safety reasons

In general

Tho horse woman hTe our guts

All men are bad for most horse women protrcted five of their horses

Gets old

Try to find a woman that doesn’t hTe men

Justiable in many cases

But in general

Get a dog

Most women have special connnectjon tomhorses. No doubt

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Lazy_dog_lover

That was hard to read, but I think I get your message. I work with dogs.

Whitedogtheblog.weebly.com was my long term foster. He saved my life from being meaningless. I would not call it codependent, at all. I was a caregiver for a disabled dog.

Yes I wanted him to feel good. The fact I felt good about him, was a bonus. I originally signed up to foster end of life dogs. Ended up with mostly 2 year old pit bulls. Loved them all.

My friend really loved horses. English saddle, I think. I don't know much. She stopped after a suspicious barn fire killed most of the boarding horses.

I am not sure if you were just venting. I was a teacher for 20 years. My codependency was real. It was debilitating. It eventually cost me my job.

Best wishes.

in reply to Lazy_dog_lover

I love dogs too

I admire and respect people who care for dogs or animals U can pour yur heart into them They don’t laugh or reject

Horses can be wonderful

To often

People buy spirited or pretty horses

Not safe ones

Not implying codependency not real but for horsemen. It’s normal

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I am super allergic to the barn, so I don't know much about their needs.

We have pretty and high spirited dogs at the shelter, too. Shelters have it in their contract to return the dog if it does not fit in the family.

Form and function are what I use to pick a dog, or a car, or an outfit. But I am Lazy_dog_lover, so you CAN see my preference. LOL

in reply to Lazy_dog_lover

Actually form

And function Is exactly right I’m out area. We can’t get people to listen about breeds

They want to champion their. Brrrd and get upset Doc ur so mean why can’t my draft horse be a race horse.

Why can’t I buy a rattlesnake for my infant son

No

Ur refreshing

Refreshing to me

Just as certain dogs are bred to be workers People like u would say oh he’s a cattle dog perfrct for yur ranch but not suitable for an apt left alone

Or

This is such a loving dog perfrct for a family

U

Get it

U

Are our sanity

Made

My century

Tk

U

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