I can’t walk away

[steveneedhelp]

So awhile back a had this strange feeling come about. I didn’t know what it was I didn’t know where it came from. What I did know was that it had to do something with my girlfriend. So while she went under surgery I did my investigation and I found things I wish I would never had seen. It hurt so much but for the life of me I can’t let her go. I know she’s no good for me but it’s like my mind loves the abuse. Every time I look at her I tell myself all these fucked up things reasons why I will never please her or be the man she needs/wants. Why can’t I walk away

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By Human Nature, if we don't change our mindset, we crave for what we can't have (in your case, her love).

The more you try, the worse you make her. The best way is to change your mindset: be indifferent to her behaviour. Get obsessed with your own hobbies. Discover interesting things in life.

Widen your circle of female friends. There are lots of nice people out there who would want your love and friendship if you give them a chance. Within 6 months, you would get the outcome that you want.

The secret is to love and take excellent care of yourself, let NO ONE treat you the way she does.

Steve, do let us know if it works for you. Bon courage !!!

Scroll down at the following link, find a topic that you feel relevant and listen to it

happinesslab.fm/

[blackcat64013]

Hi Steve, sorry to hear you are

muddled in your thinking about your relationship at the moment. If you think reading a self help book or checking out websites about relationship difficulties won't provide answers, you might need to seek some therapy. Tip is to ask the therapist if relationships is a special area of interest

Keep well