Relationships

[Vannessasedillo]

Is it my fault that I try to take care of myself and try to worry a lot about myself because of what I'm going through and my boyfriend calls me selfish because I'm trying so hard just to get support and I just want him to take care of me and I feel bad that I can't do the same as much to him I tell him how bad I feel but I'm still being called Selfish

[RecreateMyself]

I can relate. My boyfriend and I live together and he is more concerned about himself and his hobbies and doesn’t even try to help me. I resent him for watching me fall apart without offering his assistance for anything. He could clean or do laundry to help me but he’s too self centered. I’m so over it.

[Sabio77]

Vannessasedillo sorry that you are going thru a difficult time. sometimes the other person doesn't understand or how to help those of us who struggle. that when they lash out by calling names, they are really saying, "I am really not sure what to do to help you." maybe if you said a few positive things about that person, and let them know how you appreciate them, and tell them maybe suggest a few things how they could help you. it may break the ice a bit.