Hey Everyone!

[Bray1567]

I know it’s been awhile and here’s my update

I tried contacting my ex two days ago and he didn’t respond and it hurt me. I’ve been crying a lot because I truly love him but I understand it’s over but my tears are from the pain of the process of moving on

On a much brighter note I’m going to be starting therapy and I’m growing closer to my spirituality that I practice so on a scale from 1 to 10. I am feeling like a 4.5 so that’s better than where I use to be. It’s a work in progress.

I hope everyone is staying safe and healthy through this time. I wish everyone love&happiness💖😌

[shewolf_]

i feel your pain . i’m so glad to a hear that you’re starting therapy ! I blocked my ex and I do still love and miss him but I realize that he doesn’t feel the same at least to the same degree that I do . So instead of hurting myself by contacting him I just blocked him . When I start to feel sad and long for him I remind myself of the recent pain he has caused me which helps me remember that he isn’t good for me. Don’t break you’re hurt even more than it already is by contacting him or trying to rekindle things. I hope you find love and strength within yourself .

[Poodie]

Hi Bray.

Thank you for letting us know. I suppose this is one reason why we are often told to go no contact. I blocked someone also. It does help.

I am so glad you are starting therapy. Give it your very best.

Life is definitely a work in process. 4.5 is going in the right direction. Just keep in mind that recovery is not always linear. That number may go up and down while you are recovering.

Take care and stay well. ❤️