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[Babygirl91]

I am 28 or old single mom (actually I'm widowed here is my story, On Wednesday night March 21,2018 my perfect family life was completely turned in to my worst nightmare; My fiance Chris Hill (we had just set our wedding date for 10/31/2018) and my bestfriend Hali Reynolds walked to the gas station right down the road from where we lived (and still live on) and on there way back home he was hit by a jeep wrangler from behind he then flew up in the air aproxamently 1/2 the height of the telephone pole where impact took place after he flew thru the air he landed on his head and then slid aproxamently 1/2 of a football field most of the sliding was done with only his head ever touching the pavement he was immediately lifelined to Indianapolis,Indiana where he under went countless surgeries on his chest, stomach, pelvic, back (upper & lower), neck (Yes his neck and back were both broke including a previous neck break that had once again been broken and so was the vertebrae right below the old break, they even do several surgeries on his head, brain and skull in including removing a peice of his skull in hopes to help relieve the pressure and drain fluids of/from his brain/skull he fought so hard for the next 8 days the whole time he was on the ventilator as well as on lifesuport but unfortunately to me, and to our then 4yr old daddy's little princess (Nathalee) and our 21 month old baby girl (Mercedes) daughters on Saturday March 28,2018 at 9:07 pm the love of my life and my kids daddy took his last breath while in my arms and his 1st breath in heaven with jesus I will never forget this horrible nightmare that has become Our "new normal" and just so everyone knows as for the driver of the jeep wrangler that Involuntary vehicular manslaughtered my fiance and the father of my two small daughters never received even so much as a speeding ticket ( Even though she was going excessive of her 48 miles an hour at the time of impact when at the speed limit is 25 miles an hour in the area) all I want to know is what was more important than his life (like what was the distraction or malfunction or whatever she was doin to not be able to see a 6 ft + man and a grown woman walking on the side of the road because there is no sidewalks around here and there was melting snow and big water puddles everywhere)

[All_alone]

Hi and welcome. I am so sorry for your devastating loss. I'm also a widow but my story is very different but as you said it is the new normal. One we did not expect or ever thought would happen. I truly hope you have a good support system with family and friends and I also hope you find this community helpful.

[Babygirl91 in reply to All_alone]

Unfortunately I dont have any family besides my 2 daughters and we are the only support that we have but I thank you very much for your words of wisdom and I to an sorry for your loss

[Hidden in reply to Babygirl91]

I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot comprehe what you must be feeling now, I myself am going through a difficult time at the moment, but if ever you want to chat I'll response as soon as I can, please remember to take care of yourself for you and your two beautiful children

I know what it is like to have no support.

[All_alone in reply to Babygirl91]

Thank you. Be there for your girls as I'm sure you are. Please stay strong for them and you over the next few days. I'm sure this time of the year is hard. Please keep posting - we are here if you need to talk. Hugs to you.

[Poodie]

Hello Babygirl.

I am so very sorry for your immeasurable loss. This is indeed a devastating tragedy.

My sincere condolences go out to you and your girls.

I hope you find lots of support from this group. It is filled with kind and understanding people who want to help

others.

I do hope the person in the Jeep is brought to some justice.

I know you said there is no family to help you. I hope someone there will come through for you.

Be strong, Your little babies need you, plus you need to help yourself through this for your own sake.

I think there may be a bereavement group on line also. and maybe one in your area.

Take care. Sending lots of care and love.

Keep posting. ❤️

[kenster1]

my heart goes out to you and your family.i am so sorry for the loss you and your little one suffered god bless and take care.

[Hidden]

I’m so sorry, there’s not enough of word to says to you about your horrific loss to your young family. People when they get into a car, should know it’s a big responsible to drive a car carefully, they can take away peoples lives away from them, and their families. Please take care yourself, so you can take care these beautiful children of yours . I am here for you , anytime you want to talk❤️