Talks more than me. Obviously thinking up a wisecrack. I can’t compete. Pick a topic ? Like one flavor of ice cream? Pick a new 1 each time?

[Rosco301]

Hello, new here, or anywhere on line. Thinking I’m crazy for 20 years, just started seeing therapist. Fingers crossed. Alone an awful lot,l’ve been helping care for elderly parents. No idea what else to say right now. This picture is actual size, bird has a giant head. Says he loves chicken, I think double meaning there. Sometimes it’s tough to take him seriously. Feels like I’m talking too much to people I don’t know, which I would never do. But it would be nice to talk with people who feel like me, or just read comments.

[Agora1]

Hi Rosco301, You can never talk too much on this site. It helps us know where you

are coming from as well as help support you. I love the parrot. He must be worth

a lot of laughs. Amazing birds.

As for you being the caregiver for your parents, that must be very wearing on you

both physically and mentally. This is a very laid back support forum where you are

understood and cared about. This will become your safe place when life gets a little

overwhelming. As you share your journey, you will find that you are never alone.

It helps when we share our experiences with others. Welcome here Rosco. xx

[Rosco301 in reply to Agora1]

Thanks Agora, it is nice to know I’m not alone. For so long it felt like I was, so I was happy to hear from you. I was a paramedic for 23 years. I did like that job, despite the sometimes quite unpleasant calls. We did things not everyone can do. So thumbs up to you, it’s something to be proud of. ..shouldn’t end a sentence with of, but it works so....

[Agora1 in reply to Rosco301]

Hey Rosco, I see we have something else in common

It's good to see you on this site. Give it time and you will see

many others can relate to your journey. I'm around anytime

you need to talk. xx

[Dolphin14]

Welcome to the group love the picture of your friend. They are so smart aren't they.

Caretaking is hard work. I've done it for a few family members. It's all consuming and we can lose ourselves while caring for others.

Great that you've started therapy and come here for support. Post or comment on what feels right to you.

We are all in different parts of our journey. But, we all understand each other.

[Rosco301 in reply to Dolphin14]

Thanks Dolphin, it is tough being a caretaker, good to know I’m not alone in this struggle. It took awhile to realize depression is part of my life, then took awhile to realize there are others like me. I smiled when I saw someone noticed my post, that was a good moment, thanks.

[Dolphin14 in reply to Rosco301]

You aren't alone here. So be sure to stay visible. It helps so much when you feel you are a part of a community that " gets" it.

Be good to yourself. Take time to do things for you. It's so important