Suffering a lot

[typruth]

Hy first time to write here, am 30 married women with 3 kids, i have had anxiety social phobia and depression for tge past 4 years, this makes my life so hard, i couldnt go out , meet people or work, and I have this weired feeling of sexual arousal when I see men in their eyes and these men fall in love for me but I ignore them and because of this situation am changing my jobs frequently, has anyone suffered like me? I wanted to hear the experience and how did you managed to go out and become normal??? BTW I didn't have a chance to go to the doctor and never take any medicine.

[Afrohair]

I don’t really understand this post are you saying you flirt with a lot of men and that’s a problem causes you to change jobs ?or you have some kind of sexual addiction which causes you to change jobs?

In my last job I worked with people had to dress up for work everyday and look my best I had a lot of admirers flowers sent to work strawberries sweet talk I used to ignore a lot of it but some men still wanted to be around me at that point people have to intervene you shouldn’t have to quit your job if you got another job it could happen again .if your very attractive it will keep happening you need to report it at work

[Billsfriend]

I'm very sorry to hear of your suffering. You will find that there is a lot of good advice here though. You can also find good information about your situation on YouTube of all places, just enter "social phobia" or something that interests you in the search box. If you believe in a higher power, send me a private message.

Please write again soon, parts of your message are a little confusing. And don't worry about being normal, it is normal to need help at times. You are already ahead of the curve, I know that because you reached out for help. You not only reached out but you found the right place to do it. You mentioned going to the doctor, if you think it might help you, please call for an appointment. If you don't know a doctor, call a nearby hospital and they will refer you.

Please keep us posted!

[hurtingheart1]

I’m sorry you’re going through this & feeling this way!!💞it is really good you’re posting here reaching out for help& support!!